Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2422: Keith Wilson of KeithWilsonCounseling.com discusses how to handle problems in relationships by teaming up with your partner against the issue, rather than seeing your partner as the problem. For instance, if a husband struggles with being faithful, his honesty about being attracted to someone else can be seen as an opportunity to work together against the problem. Keith emphasizes that core human qualities, such as attraction to others or the thrill of taking risks, are normal and shouldn't be confused with the problems that arise when these qualities are mishandled. The key is to recognize these underlying qualities and address the actual problem together. If one partner is uncomfortable or unable to handle certain discussions, it may indicate that the problem has affected them too, requiring both partners to seek help. The article encourages understanding, teamwork, and seeking assistance in overcoming relationship challenges. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://keithwilsoncounseling.com/2017/11/03/team-up-with-the-person-against-the-problem/ Quotes to ponder: "At the core of every Problem is a piece that ain't ever going away, nor should it." "Team up with the person to fight the Problem that's making you jealous." "The more aware of your preoccupations you are, the less preoccupied you will be." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices