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Modern Mentor

242 GID Streamlining Emotional Communication

Modern Mentor

Macmillan Holdings, LLC

Careers, Business, Management

4.3726 Ratings

🗓️ 5 November 2012

⏱️ 6 minutes

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Summary

How to handle emotional communication at your job.

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0:00.0

Steven Robbins here. Welcome to the Get It Done Guys quick and dirty tips to work less and do more.

0:08.3

Listener Charlotte writes in, I volunteer for a charity that supports people who are expected to pass away soon.

0:14.8

The many emails I receive require a personal and inevitably long response. How can I reply quickly, yet sensitively? Death is terrible.

0:22.6

I can understand your desire to treat each person individually,

0:25.6

showing the maximum sensitivity possible.

0:28.6

You would never, for example, want to say,

0:30.6

your condition may be fatal, but look on the bright side,

0:33.6

now someone can dig up your corpse,

0:35.6

turn you into a zombie, and recruit you to the zombie army to take over the world. Comments like that would get you fired

0:41.4

in no time and are in very poor taste. Don't even think about it. Your job is to be comforting,

0:48.3

offer psychological advice, but not get too close, and certainly don't encourage them to use

0:53.9

you as an ongoing therapist.

0:55.8

You need mass customization. That's when you create customized letters in large quantities.

1:01.3

It's the ultimate goal of technology, making people feel like you're paying attention to them

1:06.3

personally while actually treating them like interchangeable car parts. In other episodes, I've discussed using templates and email to make email faster and

1:14.6

easier to write.

1:15.6

I've also discussed using text macros to abbreviate sentences and phrases.

1:20.3

In the case of emotional communication like this, what you'll want to do is to put the

1:24.1

two of these together.

1:25.9

In days gone by, no one would ever have mistaken

1:29.1

trivial templates and brief soundbites for human compassion and connection. Fortunately,

1:34.6

it's the 21st century. Facebook and Twitter have done the heavy lifting for us. Now that

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