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Spiritually Hungry

240. Triggered: The Power of the Pause

Spiritually Hungry

Monica Berg and Michael Berg

Religion & Spirituality, Self-improvement, Growth, Selfimprovement, Fulfillment, Parenting, Love, Anxierty, Reincarnation, Relationships, Fear, Society & Culture, Manifest, Mental Health, Life-changing, Lifes Purpose, Well-being, Improve Life, Spirituality, Wellness, Wisdom, Inspirational, Transformation, Self-help, Education, Culture, Kabbalah, Happiness, Society

4.8 • 617 Ratings

🗓️ 21 April 2026

⏱️ 40 minutes

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Summary

What if getting “triggered” wasn’t something to avoid—but something to learn from? In this episode of Spiritually Hungry Podcast, we explore the deeper meaning behind emotional reactivity and what it reveals about the parts of ourselves still asking to be healed. When something triggers you, it isn’t just about the moment; it’s about what’s being uncovered beneath the surface. We’ll break down the patterns of reaction—defensiveness, withdrawal, people-pleasing, control—and introduce a different path: the kabbalistic practice of restriction. The pause. The space between stimulus and response where real transformation happens.

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0:00.0

Every moment of being triggered is actually a moment pregnant with great light and blessings for you.

0:14.7

And whether you react or restrict is what affects whether you actually receive that great light or whether you're pushing

0:21.9

it away. Hello and welcome to spiritually hungry. Today we're talking about something many of

0:29.6

the heard said or didn't say but felt and that is I'm triggered., this is a word that triggers many people.

0:38.7

It's something that's become very popular, and we don't want to make anybody's feelings

0:43.3

feel unimportant.

0:45.6

So there are moments that something happens, and our emotional reaction is immediate, intense,

0:50.8

and somehow outsized.

0:53.6

It feels personal and more intentional than the moment may warrant.

0:57.0

A comment, a tone, being dismissed, being ignored, being criticized, seeing an injustice,

1:03.0

and suddenly this thing rises inside of us and we are triggered. And again, we're not dismissing

1:09.2

anybody's feelings, but we want to understand this

1:12.6

more deeply. So the trigger seems like it's something external, but it's connecting to something

1:18.9

internal, maybe a wound that we have, a fear, a memory, an insecurity or an unmet need. And

1:24.7

it's interesting. I was reading something that Dr. Becky Kennedy said. She was talking

1:30.4

about how, and it's in the book, you know, the body keeps the score. There are certain memories we

1:35.0

have even from our childhood, our first experiences where let's say we were yelled at or reprimanded.

1:41.9

And we can't necessarily even access those experiences or those

1:45.2

memories, but our body can. And then later, when we start to react, we show up in that way for

1:50.5

other people because we're trying to protect ourselves. It's our experience we had. Let's say

1:56.7

we did something. We were yelled at. Then when our child does something, we yell at them.

2:00.1

And we're trying to, we're trying to protect them in a sense, but it's also what we learned.

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