Welcome to Ghost of a Podcast. I'm your host Jessica Lignato. I'm an astrologer, psychic

medium, and animal communicator, and I'm going to give you your weekly horoscope and no

bullshit, mystical advice for living your very best life.

Welcome back to Ghost of a Podcast, puppies and kittens. You know, we're halfway through

holiday season. And whatever you celebrate, if you celebrate any of it, I hope you're

taking care of yourself. And you know, I felt like it was time to talk about love. It's

been a minute since I talked about love on this year podcast. And so I decided to answer

a question from a lovely gentleman. The holidays can be sort of a stressful time for me and

my partner. How long have you been together? For almost 10 years. Wow. Congratulations.

Thanks. To big deal. Thanks. Yeah. We have this long-term pattern of basically when we both

get really stressed, we have a hard time supporting each other. And part of what happens

is I feel like when I get really stressed, I go into a pretty disorganized dark place

inside. And sometimes it feels like my partner's a bit more resource than I am. And it feels

like I go into this really dark place and I really need help. I try to communicate that,

I feel like I communicate it in sort of like a calm voice, you know. And he doesn't always

receive the message of how desperate I am for support. And basically at that point, oftentimes,

he's in deep need of support as well. We basically just can't hear each other. Yeah. And it happens

on the reg. It happens on the reg and in particular during the holidays, or you just mean during

the holidays. Definitely in particular during the holidays, it can be a stressful time with

family visiting and we get out of our regular, just our regular habits. Yeah. Yeah. So I'm looking

at your chart. You were born May 6 of 79 at 3.23 a.m. in big city for tuna, California. And you

would actually offer to have me look at your partner's chart, but I just see it's all in your

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