#24: 3 Reasons Why You Lose Yourself in Relationships

The Inner Child Podcast

Gloria Zhang, MA

Ptsd, Attachment Styles, Commitment, Self-improvement, Childhood Trauma, Health & Fitness, Therapist, Inner Child Healing, Education, C-ptsd, Codependency, Alternative Health, Self Love, Dating, Asian Canadian, Relationships, Codependent Relationships, Mental Health

4.8 • 551 Ratings

🗓️ 30 August 2021

⏱️ 17 minutes

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Some people say that you can't have everything in this world - Like money, independence AND love? But in this episode, we're debunking that myth. If you're a successful high achiever who feels in control and confident when you're single but totally lose yourself and become anxious when you're in a relationship, listen up to today's episode. I talk about why this isn't your fault, discuss three reasons why Attachment is the culprit- Listen until the end to learn how to be that same person who'...

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0:00.0	Do you feel okay when you're single, but the moment you're in a relationship, you just totally lose yourself, your boundaries, whoosh out the window, and you feel so triggered and anxious all the time?
0:12.0	You are not broken, it's just an attachment thing, and I see this all the time, especially in high achievers that I work with, who have this independent personality
0:21.7	that's actually kind of getting in the way. But in this episode, I'm going to share the
0:26.1	top three reasons why you are losing yourself in relationships but might otherwise feel
0:31.3	confident on your own right after this intro.
0:37.4	Hi, I'm Gloria Zhang, and after 10 years of struggling in top after this intro.
0:43.8	Hi, I'm Gloria Zhang and after 10 years of struggling in toxic relationships, I attracted the love of my life by healing my inner child. This podcast is your weekly dose of my expertise
0:50.0	as a therapist and dating relationship coach for high achievers.
1:00.0	Learn tips to overcome low self-worth, emotional baggage, and childhood trauma so that you too can step into your power and attract the love you desire.
1:05.3	Welcome to the Inner Child Podcast.
1:08.9	Welcome back to the Inner Child Podcast. Welcome, welcome. You all have a seat here. My name is Gloria
1:15.9	Zhang. I am a therapist slash coach and I'm the host of this podcast. I am pleased to let you know that I'm
1:23.1	all settled into my new home. I'm staring at the window. I get a great view of the Cian Tower from
1:29.8	where I am. And I am just so glad that that entire move is done. Now, since my relationship
1:37.6	program for high achievers is starting soon, I thought I'd share with you some tips on a very common
1:43.4	thing that clients usually come to me for.
1:46.5	And it's that some people feel like a completely different person when they're in a relationship
1:51.2	versus when they're not in a relationship.
1:53.9	So in their regular day-to-day life as a single person, they might feel super confident.
1:59.3	They might be crushing it in their business or at their job,
2:02.5	and otherwise feel really good about themselves. But the moment they enter into an intimate
2:08.1	relationship, suddenly all of these insecurities just seem to come out of nowhere. They lose
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