237. Why We Love the Way We Love: Attachment Styles with Dr. Becky Kennedy

We Can Do Hard Things

Treat Media and Glennon Doyle

Relationships, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Education

4.8 • 42.8K Ratings

🗓️ 17 August 2023

⏱️ 62 minutes

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Glennon and Amanda share why they love this wildly popular conversation with Dr. Becky Kennedy and how it radically changed their approaches to parenting their kids (and reparenting themselves). Dr. Becky Kennedy guides us through Attachment Styles, how our past comes alive in our present – and how to free ourselves and raise freer kids. 1. Why attachment styles are at the heart of our most intense conflicts (in ourselves and with others). 2. How to rewire our original mental coding (75% of which is complete by age 3), so we can have more peace. 3. How our physical and emotional attractions in adulthood are dictated by childhood attachments. 4. Why it’s never too late to initiate relationship repair, and the warning signs that we’re starved for connection. 5. How we can help our kids trust their instincts, use parenting as a path to grow in the ways we’ve always wanted to grow, and build empathy for our own imperfect parents. For our other conversations with Dr. Becky Kennedy, check out: 130. Breaking Cycles and Reparenting Yourself with Dr. Becky Kennedy 131. How to Raise Untamed Kids with Dr. Becky Kennedy 170. The Most Radical Way to Heal: Internal Family Systems with Dr. Becky Kennedy About Dr. Becky: Dr. Becky Kennedy is a clinical psychologist, bestselling author, and mom of three, named “The Millennial Parenting Whisperer” by TIME Magazine.Dr. Becky is the author of the #1 New York Times bestseller Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be and founder of the Good Inside Membership platform, a hub with Dr. Becky’s complete parenting content collection all in one place. Her podcast “Good Inside with Dr. Becky” – was one of Apple Podcasts “Best Shows of 2021.” TW: @goodinside IG: @drbeckyatgoodinside

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0:00.0	All right. We have here today. You lucky little duckies episode 169 originally aired on
0:13.6	January 17th. This is good inside. Dr. Becky Kennedy. Why we love the way we love attachment
0:22.4	styles. Wow. This one really did it for me. Tell you that much. Glen and Doyle. Yeah.
0:30.6	This Becky Kennedy. She is a trick on the universe is what she is. She is a freaking trick
0:36.3	on the universe. She's like, Oh, I'm just here to help you with your kids. And then she walks
0:40.6	into the freaking arena and just kicks the shit out of you in terms of like making you rethink
0:46.5	every single thing you've ever thought telling you that her real secret is that she's actually
0:50.6	going to trick you into understanding that you need to be reparented. And then she leaves you
0:57.0	at the end. And it just feels new. Like you feel new. People had a huge reaction to this episode.
1:06.6	Yeah. And then the family systems won directly after you listen to this one go back and listen
1:11.1	to episode 170 with her on family systems and parts. The theory that we're all made of parts
1:17.3	that are the problem is all of our parts are fighting with each other. Yeah. So that's so helpful.
1:25.7	I mean, another you can look at it as trickery or you can look at it as just really efficient
1:31.3	because if you learn to love and care for yourself, then that is dual tracking. Yeah.
1:39.7	Loving and caring for your sister. You know sister loves a multitask. That's why you love to
1:44.7	really. I love Dr. Becky Kennedy for her efficiency. Yeah. You're saying I can do one job.
1:50.3	Two birds get saved. Yeah. Okay. That's what I'm looking for in life. It's beautiful. It makes
1:55.4	total sense. My approach to parenting has radically changed over the course of doing this podcast.
2:04.1	And it has changed my life and my sense of peace in the process. And so love it, love it,
2:12.6	love it. Dr. Becky in a bottle. Please enjoy why we love the way we love attachment status.
2:25.4	Finally fun away back home. Welcome to We Can Do Hard Things. So exciting. I know we're really
2:36.2	looking forward to today. So as I mentioned on the previous episodes in the beginning of January
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