237: PUTTING THE KIDS FIRST

ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show

Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

Religion & Spirituality, Sexuality, Kids & Family, Health & Fitness, Christianity

4.6 • 1.7K Ratings

🗓️ 16 September 2014

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

Your job as a parent is to have your children for a season in your house. While they are there you must equip them with the tools that they need to leave your house and live on their own. Being your child's savior, rescuing them and providing for all of their needs and wants impacts three generations. These three generations could be impacted for the positive or for the negative. You get to decide. In this week’s show Tony & Alisa talk about the impact of continuously putting your kids ahead of your spouse. EPISODE SPONSOR Date Nite Box is the FIRST and ONLY company to plan, book, box and send custom date nite boxes. Each box includes tickets/ vouchers for your event/activities/dinner along with directions, itinerary, a virtual date nite concierge and fun goodies to enhance each date. Support ONE Extraordinary Marriage by shopping at Amazon.com. Leave a review on iTunes | Submit a question | Call (858)876-5663 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	From San Diego, California, this is a one extraordinary marriage show where being as busy as overdone,
0:06.4	romancing is fun, and scheduling sex has taken the guesswork out of wondering when you're going to get something.
0:12.4	I'm Tony Deloreenzo, your co-host, along with my beautiful
0:15.1	wife, Elisa. From coast to coast and around the world, thank you for joining us. It's time to talk sex, love, and commitment. Give us a call at 858, 876, 5663. That's 858, 876,5663.
0:35.0	In today's show, we talk about the impact of continuously putting your kids ahead of your spouse.
0:43.2	I want you all to think about this quote from Nadia Bulanger, a French composer, conductor, and teacher.
0:50.8	And she says loving a child doesn't mean giving into all of his or her whims
0:56.3	To love him or hers to bring out the best in him to teach him to love what is difficult
1:03.6	And we're gonna be digging deep into this.
1:05.1	It's come up numerous times over the last week
1:07.8	and you guys know that when something comes up in our world repeatedly,
1:12.0	it comes up to you guys on the podcast as well and I want to just put this out here.
1:17.0	I want you guys to know just from the get-go before we get into the hug and where this is all coming from. This isn't about us
1:26.4	bashing on kids. I just want you to realize that from the get-go. What I want you to think about though is all the time that you put
1:37.3	into your kids your spouse gets pushed aside. And that's what we really want to be digging into here today so that we that way we can sort of open this up a little bit more because really at the end of the at the end of the day, you know when the kids are you know
1:55.6	Flowing the nest which is what we want to really talk about because we want to talk about those older kids here
2:00.7	You guys still have an extraordinary marriage.
2:03.0	So I just want to lay that out here right from the get-go because we've done some we've done some tougher ones you know
2:10.3	But I just want you guys understand where we're coming from right from the front.
2:14.0	Wow, he doesn't usually interrupt me before the hug. He feels pretty passionate about that and I love hearing that right from the get-go.
2:20.0	This is going to be this is going to be one of those shows that really for those of you that have
2:24.8	kids or are thinking about having kids or maybe your kids are older, you know, it's going to be
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