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Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex

#237: BONUS! Reconstructing Intimacy After Breast Cancer

Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex

Authentic Intimacy®

Relationships, Society & Culture, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

4.91.7K Ratings

🗓️ 14 November 2018

⏱️ 29 minutes

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Summary

"I never imagined there would be a point in my life when a piece of me would have to be reconstructed. That at age 40 my chest would literally be taken apart and put back together."  Kim Harms underwent a bilateral mastectomy and breast reconstruction after surviving breast cancer. She soon learned that her breasts weren't the only things that God would help her reconstruct.

Guest: Kim Harms, Life Reconstructed

 

 

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0:00.0

Well, thanks for listening to Job with Julie. I'm Julie Slattery, and it's bonus episode time.

0:06.5

Today I want to share a conversation with Kim Harms, author and founder of the blog Life

0:10.9

Reconstructed. The day after her 40th birthday, Kim was diagnosed with breast cancer and had

0:16.9

a bilateral mastectomy in breast reconstruction. What I so appreciate about Kim is her

0:22.3

candidness and how real she is about what it was like to rebuild sexual intimacy with her husband

0:27.8

after losing her breasts. Now, if you haven't been personally affected by breast cancer,

0:33.2

I still encourage you to listen to Kim's advice and story. She has some great perspectives that I know will impact you.

0:39.9

And when you're finished listening, please go in and rate job with Julie on iTunes, Stitcher, or wherever you subscribe.

0:46.7

A five-star rating will help others find job with Julie when they're searching for help and hope and issues related to their sexuality.

0:54.5

Now let's listen to our bonus episode, My Conversation with Kim Harms.

1:01.5

Okay, so Kim, I love that you reached out to Authentic Enumcy and said,

1:06.1

hey, I've got a unique story to share that I think women will benefit from.

1:11.0

And you're a breast cancer survivor.

1:14.2

Yes.

1:14.8

Yeah.

1:15.1

And I'm looking at you and you're not very old.

1:19.3

Yeah.

1:20.0

So how old were you when you got breast cancer?

1:22.4

I was 40.

1:23.8

I was diagnosed one month to the day after my 40th birthday. Wow. And I'm 42 right now.

1:32.7

Okay. And I'm guessing that it was just a total out of the blue shock or did you have any warnings?

1:39.9

It was a shock. I found a lump. It was right at my brawl line. I wasn't like a regular check my breast kind of person. I should be and people should be, but I wasn't. But it was right in my brawl line so I could feel it and it kind of was tender there. And so I thought, you know what, I probably should have this checked out.

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