#237: BONUS! Reconstructing Intimacy After Breast Cancer
Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex
Authentic Intimacy®
4.9 • 1.7K Ratings
🗓️ 14 November 2018
⏱️ 29 minutes
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Summary
"I never imagined there would be a point in my life when a piece of me would have to be reconstructed. That at age 40 my chest would literally be taken apart and put back together." Kim Harms underwent a bilateral mastectomy and breast reconstruction after surviving breast cancer. She soon learned that her breasts weren't the only things that God would help her reconstruct.
Guest: Kim Harms, Life Reconstructed
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| 0:00.0 | Well, thanks for listening to Job with Julie. I'm Julie Slattery, and it's bonus episode time. |
| 0:06.5 | Today I want to share a conversation with Kim Harms, author and founder of the blog Life |
| 0:10.9 | Reconstructed. The day after her 40th birthday, Kim was diagnosed with breast cancer and had |
| 0:16.9 | a bilateral mastectomy in breast reconstruction. What I so appreciate about Kim is her |
| 0:22.3 | candidness and how real she is about what it was like to rebuild sexual intimacy with her husband |
| 0:27.8 | after losing her breasts. Now, if you haven't been personally affected by breast cancer, |
| 0:33.2 | I still encourage you to listen to Kim's advice and story. She has some great perspectives that I know will impact you. |
| 0:39.9 | And when you're finished listening, please go in and rate job with Julie on iTunes, Stitcher, or wherever you subscribe. |
| 0:46.7 | A five-star rating will help others find job with Julie when they're searching for help and hope and issues related to their sexuality. |
| 0:54.5 | Now let's listen to our bonus episode, My Conversation with Kim Harms. |
| 1:01.5 | Okay, so Kim, I love that you reached out to Authentic Enumcy and said, |
| 1:06.1 | hey, I've got a unique story to share that I think women will benefit from. |
| 1:11.0 | And you're a breast cancer survivor. |
| 1:14.2 | Yes. |
| 1:14.8 | Yeah. |
| 1:15.1 | And I'm looking at you and you're not very old. |
| 1:19.3 | Yeah. |
| 1:20.0 | So how old were you when you got breast cancer? |
| 1:22.4 | I was 40. |
| 1:23.8 | I was diagnosed one month to the day after my 40th birthday. Wow. And I'm 42 right now. |
| 1:32.7 | Okay. And I'm guessing that it was just a total out of the blue shock or did you have any warnings? |
| 1:39.9 | It was a shock. I found a lump. It was right at my brawl line. I wasn't like a regular check my breast kind of person. I should be and people should be, but I wasn't. But it was right in my brawl line so I could feel it and it kind of was tender there. And so I thought, you know what, I probably should have this checked out. |
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