From San Diego, California, this is a one extraordinary marriage show where being busy is overdone.

Romancing is fun and scheduling sex has taken the guesswork out of wondering when you're going to get some.

I'm Tony Delorenzzo, your co-host along with

my beautiful wife, Elisa. From coast to coast and around the world, thank you for joining

us. It's time to talk sex, love, and commitment. Give us a call at 858, 876, 5663. That's 858, 858, 876,56663.

In today's show, we talk about what happens when there is a lack of clarity on which

days you are to initiate sex.

This is going to be a good one.

This is one taken straight out of Tony and Elisa's life and before we get to that

Let's life man this started this is like last night. Well that's what I'm talking about taking it out of our life so we're gonna have a lot of fun with this and just as we start today's show

you know I like to start with a quote it's not often that I pull something that I've

actually said but the other day I was having this email exchange with someone

and yeah every once in a while I type something and I think oh wow that's exactly what I need to share with everybody and

here it is guys it's sex is not one more thing on the

to-do list you know we all have them we all have that to-do list in our head you know and

a lot of times in marriage sex falls at the bottom

sex is not one more thing on the to-do list rather it's one of the most important things

to do for your marriage. And as we talk about getting clarity on whose date

is to initiate and things like that, I want you to really think about that that

if you shift your mindset, your whole marriage will shift.

And that's a pretty powerful idea

that you guys can incorporate this week.

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