My job is to somehow make them curious enough or persuade them by Hooker Crow to get more aware of themselves and where they came from and what they are into and what is already there and just to bring it out.

This is what compels me to compel them and I will do it by whatever

means necessary.

Welcome to the Black Girls Hill Podcast, where we talk about healing our intimacy disorders and

resolve trauma and building a healthy relationship with first ourselves and

then others. Every episode we will talk about advice you can apply today to break unhealthy

patterns and grow in your self-worth. I'm She Nila Shay, Love Edition

coach and trauma specialist. Let's begin.

Hello hello Let's begin. Hello, and welcome to the latest episode of Black Girls Heel.

I am so happy to be with you.

I'm so happy to be celebrating the first day of Black History Month if you are

listening to this when I post it. Day is such a beautiful day and I'm sending you all

so much love, so much celebration and so much joy for us to be connected as a community and as a

people and I'm so proud of us and I love us and I'm so happy we are here.

In today's episode I I am, this is a double episode week where we are talking about mother trauma.

So for those of you who don't know, I am doing a four-part series at the top of this year talking about getting our lives together around our relationship with ourselves, our relationship with our mother wounds and family trauma, our relationship with

money, and our relationship with our mates. And so we are in our mother section and at

the end of each section we are doing a workshop or I am hosting a workshop that is

going to go deeper. That's what we're talking about here on the podcast and so

this week I decided to double up on the episode so that I can talk about what we are talking about here in this series, but also talk about the things that we normally talk about, which are all things of addiction, love avoidance, and

love deprivation. So I had an episode earlier this week talking about those

topics, but today we're going to be talking about dealing with

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