221. The DOUBTING Phase of Relationships No One Talks About

Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau

Beatrice

Education, Self-improvement

4.8 • 3.4K Ratings

🗓️ 5 October 2023

⏱️ 19 minutes

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Summary

There's one stage of new relationships that no one talks about.

We try to pretend it doesn't happen. In fact, we do one better (or worse): we usually dip out of the relationship the second we enter this phase.

The first phase of any new relationship is the honeymoon phase…and it is POWERFUL.

That cocktail of hormones hits HARD. We're floating on cloud nine. All we see in front of us is our perfect, amazing partner. Everything they do is so cute and sweet and amazing…

Until it isn't.

Until one day, we wake up and notice every little thing about them that actually annoys us.

Welcome to the DOUBTING PHASE: the phase of relationships where we suddenly see the reality of our partner, not our hormone hopped-up perception of them.

The comedown hits even harder than the high. And unfortunately, this is where most people decide it's time to end the relationship, because "the magic" is gone.

This phase is normal. Everyone has it. But we need to change the way we approach the doubting phase…because if we bide our time and make it to the other side, what's waiting for us is a phase of love unlike any other.

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0:00.0	Welcome to the Self-Love Fixed Podcast.
0:09.4	I'm your host, the Eagle Whisperer, aka Beatrice, founder of the Self-Trust Alchemy Program,
0:15.6	formerly known as Self-Love Overcoat Penancy, T-Addict, and a Self-Trust Embodiment Coach,
0:21.2	Teacher, and Mentor for Deep, Luxe, Bitches who aren't afraid of the dark.
0:26.6	I'm on a mission to redefine Self-Love, to redefine everything that you think you have to fix about yourself.
0:33.0	You're people pleasing, codependency, your past relationship, and so much more,
0:37.9	so that you can alchemize these aspects of yourself into deep,
0:41.8	reality-bending levels of self-trust and next-level self-acceptance.
0:45.6	In this podcast, we don't believe you need fixing.
0:49.2	Here, the only thing we repair is the way you currently view Self-Love,
0:54.6	manifestation, alignment, and dating and relationships.
0:57.8	Welcome to the Dark Side, where we play in the realm of astrology,
1:01.7	ego work, shadow work, virtuality, mask and fem work, and so much more.
1:06.6	Oh, and lots of laughs.
1:08.5	Welcome to Self-Love, redefine.
1:11.4	Welcome to the Self-Love Fixed.
1:15.6	Hello, and welcome back to the Self-Love Fixed Podcast.
1:18.3	My name is Beatrice, and I'm your host, and it's October,
1:22.2	happy October, happy spooky month, fall is falling.
1:28.2	Libra season has just begun, so relationships are really in focus,
1:32.7	and with that being said, this week I really want to talk about something
1:37.0	that I feel, many people feel in their relationships,
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