So George, we've had a lot of response about our affair episode and we want to go a little further with that and talk about

Withdrawers and pursuers and their differences with affairs

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All right I do love these the feedback that we're getting through the mail bag.

I mean it challenges us to get clearer and more specific and it's it's so rich when people are

letting us into their lives and just wanting to get clearer. I agree I mean I think this

helps shape where we need to go as a podcast what's burning in people's hearts, what they want to hear, what they're

needing to hear, so we thank you. We don't get back to everybody, but we try to at least acknowledge

that you've sent us a question or a problem or just shared your

hearts with us and again thank you for your encouragement we often get a lot of

letters like that too and you know we're just talking into a mic we don't see how

it hits people until we hear from you.

So thank you. And the question around, I mean I like to zoom out always and say, hey,

pursue a withdrawal of both human. We have the same emotions, the same needs.

When our partner who's promised to love us

portrays that love, it causes hurt and sadness and doubt and mistrust.

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