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🗓️ 9 August 2023
⏱️ 9 minutes
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Over the past 15 years, I've coached so many high-achieving individuals who seemingly have it all, but for whom finding love is a massive struggle.
What's holding them back? FEAR.
They fear that opening themselves up and facing rejection could shatter the identity they've built as a confident and accomplished person. To me, this is shame, as it is clear their ego is getting in the way of being happy.
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| 0:00.0 | Achieving something could be a big problem. |
| 0:01.7 | You still inside have all your insecurities, |
| 0:03.6 | but other people think you're the shit. |
| 0:05.2 | And now you don't want to mess up that image |
| 0:06.7 | you have with everybody else. |
| 0:08.7 | That's death to growth. So. Hey, what's up guys, it's Matthew. I am coming to you right now from Heathrow Airport in London |
| 0:35.0 | where I'm about to take a flight back to the States but I wanted to drop in and |
| 0:40.0 | share this clip with you this is going to be particularly helpful if you're |
| 0:43.9 | single and you struggle to meet people in real life. So I hope you enjoy it and |
| 0:49.6 | thanks for listening. A quick bit of news, we now have a date for the next in-person retreat of mine in Florida. |
| 1:01.4 | It's going to be October from the 9th to the 15th. We're going to spend six days |
| 1:06.3 | together working on the biggest challenges of your life. The things that hold you |
| 1:11.7 | back, the things that make it hard for you to feel confident, |
| 1:15.2 | the things that get in the way of you dating and finding love. |
| 1:20.3 | What are the deeper patterns that have been there a long time that you feel are impossible to shift? |
| 1:26.6 | Those are the things we're going to work on together. You can come and apply by going to |
| 1:31.6 | M.H. retreat.com, you'll see all of the information about the program. |
| 1:36.0 | I really do hope to see you there in October so that we can spend six days together in person. |
| 1:49.0 | I know this thing can punch me in the face. I know. |
| 1:50.0 | I know. |
| 1:51.0 | You get in the ring, you know something can punch you in the face. |
| 1:54.7 | You go for a love life, you know it can punch you in the face. |
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