From San Diego, California, this is a one extraordinary marriage show where being busy is overdone,

romancing is fun, and scheduling sex has taken the guesswork out of wondering when you're going to get some. I'm Tony Deloreenzo, your co-host

along with my beautiful wife, Elisa. From coast to coast and around the world, thank you

for joining us. It's time to talk sex, love, and commitment.

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In today's show, we are talking about this is

a phrase that has even been uttered in our own marriage.

I love you but I'm not in love with you.

I have to tell you this is one that I actually just heard this weekend

having a conversation with someone and it's one that yes we have uttered in our own marriage I have

uttered in our marriage and as we start today's show I want you to think about

this quote that I found on love quotes.com says no one falls in love by choice. It is by chance. No one

stays in love by chance. It is hard work. That's what we're going to dig into today. We're going to

dig into today. We're going to be talking about this idea of being in love or loving someone but before we get

started one of the highlights of the show for me is always sharing a hug from a

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