218. Transcending Comparison in Business, Relationships, + Dating

Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau

Beatrice

Education, Self-improvement

4.8 • 3.4K Ratings

🗓️ 14 September 2023

⏱️ 33 minutes

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Summary

I love delving into the shadowy parts of ourselves that no one likes to talk about…comparison being one of them.

We all compare ourselves to others. We all feel envious of someone else's successes, both in business and in relationships…especially when they're in the same industry as us. And I don't think these experiences are wrong…but when we lie about it to ourselves and refuse to OWN what we're thinking and feeling, that's when it becomes a problem.

When we try to pretend we aren't playing the comparison game, we actually end up unconsciously letting it steal it the driver's seat…and before we know it, our businesses are being run by our perceptions of what others have achieved and what we think we're doing "wrong."

There are ways to quit the comparison game…and it starts with looking for places where we might be acting a liiittle entitled. Let's examine this together.

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0:00.0	Welcome to the Self-Love Fix Podcast. I'm your host, the Eagle Whisperer, aka Beatrice. Founder
0:13.4	of the Self-Trust Alchemy Program formerly known as Self-Love Overcoat Penancy, T-Addict,
0:19.6	and a Self-Trust Embodiment Coach teacher and mentor for deep, luxed bitches who aren't
0:24.7	afraid of the dark. I'm on a mission to redefine Self-Love, to redefine
0:29.4	everything that you think you have to fix about yourself. You're people pleasing,
0:33.8	codependency, your past relationship, and so much more so that you can
0:38.5	alchemize these aspects of yourself into deep, reality-bending levels of self-trust
0:44.0	and next-level self-acceptance. In this podcast, we don't believe you need fixing.
0:49.2	Here, the only thing we repair is the way you currently view Self-Love,
0:54.6	manifestation, alignment, and dating and relationships. Welcome to the dark side,
0:59.4	where we play in the realm of astrology, ego work, shadow work, virtuality,
1:04.2	mask and fem work, and so much more. Oh, and lots of laughs. Welcome to Self-Love, redefine.
1:11.3	Welcome to the Self-Love Fix.
1:15.7	Hello, and welcome back to the Self-Love Fix Podcast. My name is Beatrice,
1:20.6	and I am your host. In this week, we have a really juicy topic. We are going to be talking about
1:27.6	comparison in business and in relationships, and even in dating. Like, if you're someone who's
1:34.0	single and the comparison that can happen in the dating phase, so we're going to touch on each
1:39.7	of those, and I think you're really, really going to love it. But before we get into that,
1:44.4	Mercury goes direct tomorrow at 1.21pm PST. Mercury has been in retrograde in the
1:53.2	sign of Virgo since August 23rd. And although we're at the tail end of this retrograde,
2:01.0	I kind of want to just recap on a collective level what this has meant for us. And even,
2:06.1	you know, just for you to kind of contemplate some things, especially because even though it's
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