216: 5 Mistakes That Make Him Tune You Out
The Empowered Wife Podcast: Marriage Help with Laura Doyle
Laura Doyle
4.8 • 1K Ratings
🗓️ 9 January 2024
⏱️ 58 minutes
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Summary
This was one of the great mysteries of my life, so I want to share this with as many women as possible. I don’t want anybody to suffer just because they don’t know about these mistakes. Because before I knew them, I suffered. Just a few years into our marriage, my husband John refused to do housework. When I tried to tell him to wash the dishes, he just turned up the TV to drown me out. I begged, demanded, and repeated myself. I signed us up for marriage counseling, but it didn’t help. He just didn’t care about helping me, which made me question the whole marriage. Then I discovered a phrase that made him do chores willingly. The first time I tried it, John offered to clean the kitchen. And he did. That was over 20 years ago, and he’s been cleaning it ever since. Thousands of my students have also used this cheat phrase with great success. But it won’t work if you make these common mistakes that almost cost me my marriage. On today’s episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast, I’m revealing 5 alarming mistakes that make him tune you out.
Plus, my guest Jamese had zero romance at her house because her husband was always on the computer. And they were newlyweds! But then Jamese “got herself some business” and got off of her husband’s paper. Today, her marriage is fresh, loving, and fun! She’s going to tell us how she did it so you can do it too.
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| 0:00.0 | today on the Empowered Wife podcast. |
| 0:03.0 | And then she said, well, it kind of sounds like he just wants to be your hero. |
| 0:08.4 | What? How does he profit out of this whole conversation, right? |
| 0:13.8 | So, you know, it sounds like he's just a really good guy. |
| 0:17.9 | And I'm like, oh! |
| 0:19.8 | Oh! Welcome to the Empowered Wife podcast where it's all about fixing your |
| 0:28.0 | marriage without your man's conscious effort so that you feel desired, taken care of, and special, even if your relationship feels |
| 0:36.0 | hopeless. I'm Laura Doyle and today we're talking about five alarming mistakes that |
| 0:41.7 | make him tune you out and the cheap phrase that will motivate |
| 0:45.6 | him instead. |
| 0:47.4 | My guess Jemise had zero romance at her house because her husband was always on the computer and they were newlyweds. But then |
| 0:55.2 | Jimmy's got herself some business and got off her husband's paper. Today her |
| 1:01.7 | marriage is fresh, loving, and fun. She's going to tell us how she did it so you can do it too. |
| 1:07.0 | But first let's talk about the five alarming mistakes that make him tune you out and the cheat phrase that will motivate him instead. |
| 1:16.0 | This was one of the great mysteries of my life, so I'm always trying to make sure I share this |
| 1:21.0 | with as many women as possible because before I knew this I suffered and I don't want anybody else to suffer just because they don't know about these mistakes and this powerful chief phrase. |
| 1:34.6 | So here's what happened. |
| 1:35.5 | We were just a few years into our marriage and my husband John refused to do housework. |
| 1:43.0 | When I tried to tell him to wash the dishes or ask him, |
| 1:48.0 | he just turned up the TV to drown me out. |
| 1:51.0 | I begged, I demanded, I repeated myself, repeatedly, I signed us up for |
| 1:57.4 | marriage counseling so she could straighten him out but that didn't help and |
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