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UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone

215. Orgasm-Blocking Thoughts with August McLaughlin

UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone

Kara Loewentheil

Education, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Philosophy, Society & Culture, Mental Health

4.65.6K Ratings

🗓️ 9 December 2021

⏱️ 29 minutes

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Summary

Your biggest obstacle to mind-blowing pleasure isn’t your partner’s inability to find your g-spot or your inability to find a partner or your limited drawer of sex toys...it’s actually your thoughts.

If you find yourself stressing about your appearance during sex (solo or with a partner!), worrying about your partner’s pleasure more than your own, or feeling like your desire is dependent on whether someone desires you, tune in to this interview with August McLaughlin from Girl Boner Radio. In it, we explore some common orgasm-blocking thoughts, and how to rewire your brain so you can jump-start your libido.

Get full show notes and more information here: https://unfuckyourbrain.com/215

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0:00.0

Welcome to UnFuck Your Brain. The only podcast that teaches you how to use psychology, feminism, and coaching to rewire your brain

0:16.3

and get what you want in life.

0:18.6

And now here's your host, Harvard Law School grad, Feminist Rockstar, and Master Coach,

0:24.7

Kara Loyenthyle.

0:28.0

Okay, my chicken, so I want you to imagine this.

0:37.0

You're so very close to some place you want to go. Maybe it's Hawaii. Or maybe it's an orgasm. It's an orgasm.

0:44.0

We're talking about orgasms.

0:45.0

You're so close to an orgasm

0:47.0

and then your brain starts saying shit.

0:50.0

Like, you're taking too long.

0:53.0

What if I smell or taste weird?

0:56.0

Did we turn off the stove?

0:59.0

I just want to go to bed.

1:01.0

What about that email? We've all been there, some of us more often than others. On this episode of the quite the name with August McLaughlin who is amazing

1:24.0

and this was actually quite a while ago we recorded this episode

1:27.0

and we've never shared it here

1:29.0

and so I'm super excited for you all to hear

1:31.0

I think

1:32.0

especially as it gets at least here in the, you know,

1:35.3

northern part of the Western Hemisphere, it's winter, it's getting cold, we'll spend more time

1:40.6

inside, it's cuffing season. I don't really know what that is, but that's

1:44.1

something the young people say. Probably not actually. That's probably something 35-year-old say, and

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