My, my job is to somehow make them curious enough or persuade them by hook or crook to get

more aware of themselves and where they came from and what they are into and what is already

there is just to bring it out.

This is what compels me to compel them and I will do it by whatever means necessary.

Welcome to the Black Girl's Hill podcast where we talk about healing or its

missing disorders and resolve trauma and building a healthy relationship with

first ourselves and then others. Every episode we will talk about advice you can

apply today to break unhealthy patterns and grow in your software. I'm Sheena

Lache, love addition coach and trauma specialist. Let's begin.

Hello, hello and welcome to the latest episode of Black Girl's Hill. I hope that

you're doing well wherever you are. So in today's episode we are pivoting from

our self-love focus and series and we are focusing back on home, back on

relationships dating, love addiction, love avoidance, love deprivation and back

to our roots and we're kicking it off with talking about the difference between

codependency and compatibility. Codependency being that loss of yourself when

you're in partnership relationship with a person. So this can be a lover, it

can be a friend, it can be a family member, it can be an entity, a group, it

could be with work, but it's where you will eliminate neglect, not be aware of,

deny your own personal needs, wants feelings, desires in order to take care

and to appease somebody else. Sometimes it is because you are completely again

unaware that they are needs of yours because you have become fixated on making

the other person happy, healthy, comfortable, pleased with you, whatever it may

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