I think when you're dealing with corporations because the base truth is that to ascertain millions and of in

exceptionally like billions of dollars you have to do crime you have to hurt people people have to die even if it's like an inadvertent

so it's like kind of like we're

taking back from the people who are siphoning from us. And that's also the reason that

I don't feel bad doing it is because being a black woman is a scam like we are oppressed everyone all they

do is steal from us constantly use us abuse us make them must do all their work we

uplifting everybody and who's uplifting us sometimes you have to check in with yourself

and I think that works for relationships for every aspect of your life.

Like if you really want something to happen,

take a step back and be like, why do I want this to happen so bad?

Is it because I'm unfulfilled in this this to happen so bad is it because I

feel like I haven't had a break in a long time like or is it because I'm

really want this specific thing anywhere I go belong there, no matter what that place is.

This is the secret lives of black women.

I'm Charla.

And I'm Lauren.

And today, we're talking scams.

Scams.

Yeah,

Lauren, have you ever scammed anybody?

I can scam confidence in a professional setting

in which I cannot do in my actual life that you don't actually have that I don't actually have but in like a work setting I can be like oh yeah I fucking got. I'm gonna sell this.

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