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The Light Watkins Show

209: My Thoughts on Toxic Positivity: A Solo Episode with Light Watkins

The Light Watkins Show

Light Watkins

Self-improvement, Religion & Spirituality, Society & Culture, Education

4.9960 Ratings

🗓️ 29 May 2024

⏱️ 78 minutes

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Summary

In this solo episode, Light delves into the concept of toxic positivity, increasingly prevalent in wellness circles. Starting with the parable of the farmer and the horse, he illustrates how excessive optimism can dismiss genuine emotional experiences, leading to a superficial understanding of growth and resilience.Light explains that toxic positivity involves the ineffective overgeneralization of a happy state across all situations, invalidating real emotions. He emphasizes acknowledging pos...

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We don't want to forget that negativity can also be a toxic experience.

0:09.4

In fact, you could even make the argument that it's more toxic of an experience than forcing yourself to be a little bit more

0:16.7

positive about it. And that's from a psycho physiological perspective, right?

0:23.0

Because negativity implies that to some degree you're experiencing distress.

0:29.0

Distress means you're experiencing fear, it means you're experiencing maybe sadness or anger or even things

0:38.7

like boredom are considered to be distressful.

0:42.7

And how the body responds to distressful emotions

0:48.4

is it releases very toxic chemicals in the nervous system.

0:53.0

And this is what initiates what they call the fight-flight reaction,

0:58.0

which is where the body interprets fear, sadness, anger, as you are under attack by a predator that's trying to kill you.

1:09.0

So the stakes are extremely high under the influence of those stress chemicals, the fight or flight reaction.

1:15.0

And so automatically within, you know, a split second, everything in your body starts

1:20.0

to get rearranged, the priorities change from whatever the long-term survival functions

1:26.2

happen to be, such as reproduction, hormonal balancing, digestion of food, etc. And everything gets rerouted to preparing the body for battle.

1:37.0

Hey friend welcome back to the Light Watkins show. I'm Light Watkins and I have

1:47.6

conversations with ordinary folks just like you and me who've taken extraordinary

1:52.1

leaps of faith in the direction of their path, their purpose,

1:55.5

or what they've identified as their mission in life.

1:58.7

And in doing so, they've been able to positively impact and inspire the lives of many other people who've either heard about their story or who've witnessed them in action or people who've directly benefited from their work.

2:11.0

The goal of these conversations is to expose you to as many people as possible

2:16.0

who've found their path and to humanize them through their story. And after hearing story after

2:21.9

story, hopefully, eventually you give yourself permission to move

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