as anybody who's a people pleaser will know, or someone who's anxious attachment,

like you're the perfect person to join with someone who's selfish or lazy or narcissistic

because they're looking for someone or dependent. They're looking for someone to take over

their life and do it for them. And, you know, people pleaser more than happy too,

because then you feel valued out of being needed. And I think that's such a problem for so many

women in this world. Welcome to how my parents raised me. I'm Dawn Chitty. When we are born,

we arrive here as pure and perfect souls. And the direction our life takes from that moment

is deeply connected to what our parents bring to our lives. And what our parents bring to our

lives is deeply connected to what their parents brought to their lives. And that's the cycle of

families. I have always craved connection with real and raw stories to understand what makes you

what makes you the absolutely unique human that you are. Stories are medicine for the soul.

They can connect us and they can change the world. And so in this podcast, I'm listening to beautiful

souls sharing their story. What happened to them? How they got through and how they have healed

and thrived despite everything to arrive right here in this moment. Content warning,

if you are triggered by the themes of this podcast, please seek a help line in your city.

Hello, my beautiful friends. Welcome to this quick chat episode. Heather's mum was magical.

She was exquisite and cultured and fun. She also suffered with schizophrenia. Heather's mum suffered

terribly when her own mum died, which resulted over time in her mum taking her own life.

Heather grew up in this magical world of her mother's making, which helped her to see

how fluid our sense of reality is, how much we can influence our own reality.

Heather is now called the reframe queen of orange county. She asks us to connect in with

what am I thinking? What am I choosing? Why am I choosing this? Ultimately leading to the question,

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