If you feel like that's what's happening, then maybe, like, I would take some time on first

dates to really evaluate that. Like, take a step back. If I'm, like, really attracted to this

person, let me take a step back and not, like, feed into that sparky feeling for a second

if that's what's happening to you over and over again. Yeah. I mean, they say this is the danger of

the sparks. I'm like, maybe the first's sparky. That's what it is.

You're like, yeah, it's not a sparky on the second date.

I don't know what to say. I mean, it can't be.

That's the problem with the spark.

Yeah, that's what's tough.

That's what's tough.

Hey, everybody. Welcome back to Finding Mr. Haight the podcast.

I am your co-host, Eric Kaspera.

And I'm Allie Jackson.

And first of all, up top, I would just like to say thank you for all the nice messages that I received from the big announcement last week. I really appreciate it.

Appreciate all the words of encouragement on, you know, moving forward and making a scary

adjustment of trying something new, essentially, which is always hard. You know, like we said,

change is hard, but change is also good and can be very scary.

Yeah, I mean, the listeners love you and the same way that I do.

Well, different, slightly different way, but.

But, you know, I think that's so clear.

And like we are, I hope you already knew that.

But like, I especially hope that after last week and you know all of the first on the

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