204-The TRUTH about "honesty"

Delight Your Marriage

Belah Rose

Sexuality, Religion & Spirituality, Health & Fitness, Christianity

4.7 • 589 Ratings

🗓️ 12 March 2019

⏱️ 44 minutes

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Summary

A lot of women are under the impression that they need to share everything with their husbands. In fact, they say this is being "honest".

I disagree. In EVERY marriage (yes, even VERY good ones), there are many things that are not (and should not) be shared. No one needs to share about tons of bathroom stuff---yuck, not sexy. But there are tons of other things that just wouldn't be useful, helpful, godly, respectful, kind or many other reasons to share.

AND it depends on what level of the Marriage Health Spectrum your marriage is to determine what you SHOULD or SHOULD NOT share.

If your marriage is awful right now, you shouldn't SHARE what someone who has an awesome marriage can share. You have to be strategic with what you do and do not share. SO that it can BECOME an awesome marriage.

Find out...

Where your marriage is on the Marriage Health Spectrum
- Considering that, does he--your husband--deserve "your heart"?
- How can you still be the faithful, generous wife AND guard your heart?
HOW to respond to heartbreaking adulterous situations strategically, like affairs or addictions to pornography
- If you don't want to lose your marriage, HOW your react is vital!
WHAT we can learn from Esther, the woman who changed the heart of the King!
- Can you believe sex was involved?
How to transform zero-affection marriages and get to a place where you're doing God's will in this life
How to respond to your husband when he hurts you…
- Hurt people HURT PEOPLE
Understand how your husband is motivated, how he is designed so you can work with that and help him become the man, God wants him to be.
- And the man that supports you, loves you, allows you to be fulfilled and do God's work

Resources:

Jump on a free 40-minute Clarity Call with me. To schedule, go to: www.dym.as.me
IF I think I can help you, then I'll share with you what the 90-Day Delighted Wife Program looks like!

Transcript

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0:00.0	Welcome to the Delight Your Marriage podcast, the show where you hear from amazing and inspiring
0:08.1	wives sharing their struggles, triumphs, and advice for this journey called marriage.
0:13.9	Here's your host, Bella Rose.
0:20.1	Hi there, and welcome, welcome. This is the Delight Your Marriage podcast and I'm really, really
0:26.5	grateful that you just joined today, that you got a chance to dip into what we're chatting about.
0:35.6	So first off, I want to share with you that I'm really excited because
0:40.3	I've received some emails that I just think are so exciting. One is from a husband that has
0:49.0	reached out to me many, many times over the years that I've been doing, DYM.
0:54.3	And he actually has let me know that was able to sit down with his wife and share a podcast
1:02.5	with her.
1:03.8	And by God's grace, it moved something in her that caused her to actually, you know, taken by the hand and apologize for so much. And
1:17.5	by God's grace, they were able to talk about the good old days of their marriage and they're,
1:25.2	yeah, moving to a better spot.
1:28.3	And not only that, he started going to church and it's just really cool to hear that God is redeeming
1:38.3	their marriage and bringing him closer to Jesus, which is really the vision and the mission
1:43.1	for DYM.
1:46.1	So, yeah, that's really exciting. I'm just, I'm so grateful when marriages move forward just by listening to the podcast.
1:54.6	You know, even more so by God's grace, when they get a chance to actually get on a clarity call
2:00.5	and end up working with me as a client,
2:03.4	like God has done amazing things in a very short amount of time.
2:07.4	I'm actually working with a wife right now who starting off, their marriage had zero affection.
2:14.6	Like they actually wouldn't touch during the day and really the only time
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