#200: Listening So People Will Talk
Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex
Authentic Intimacy®
4.9 • 1.7K Ratings
🗓️ 26 March 2018
⏱️ 44 minutes
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Summary
The call to be a good listener comes straight from Jesus: in order to feel loved, people have to feel heard. Great conversation begins with great listening. On this Java with Juli, join Juli and her guest as they discuss how you can become a better listener. It starts with asking good questions, embracing silence, validating the other's emotions, and refraining from judgment.
Guest: Becky Harling
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| 0:00.0 | I want to thank Chris Dorset from Seamount Financial Group for sponsoring this episode of Java with Julie. |
| 0:06.0 | Chris is a certified financial planner that has been helping clients for over 20 years, and he specializes in retirement planning. |
| 0:12.8 | Chris is also a good friend and sits on the board of authentic intimacy, so is really invested in our ministry. |
| 0:18.6 | And if you're interested in learning how Chris can be of help for you |
| 0:21.3 | and your family's financial planning, |
| 0:23.2 | you can find out more at cmountfinancial.com |
| 0:26.6 | or by contacting him directly at 800-752-8-766. |
| 0:32.6 | Thanks, Chris. |
| 0:34.0 | Hey, welcome to Jabba with Julie, |
| 0:36.1 | and my guest, Becky Harling, is here with me at Mission Coffee. |
| 0:40.1 | And this is unusual, Becky, because I'm actually not drinking coffee right now. |
| 0:45.1 | I'm drinking tea. |
| 0:46.4 | Are you sick? |
| 0:47.7 | No, I just, this is our third taping of the day, and I've had so much coffee that I think if I have another cup I will talk too fast for |
| 0:54.9 | people to listen. That may happen to me because this is my at least fourth cup today. Wow. Oh my. |
| 1:01.6 | Sometimes you just need four cups, Julie. It's a four cup day. It's a four cup day. Yeah. Yeah. Tell me |
| 1:06.9 | about that. It's a crazy day for you? Well, I was up in Denver. |
| 1:30.8 | And then I drove up to Denver early this morning and then got back here in time to do this. Okay. And then I have a couple of more appointments this afternoon. And then tonight get to babysit for five of my grandchildren. Oh, my goodness. That is a five-year-old. I know. two two year olds, one three year old, one five year old and a seven year old. |
| 1:44.6 | Oh, wow. Yeah. Man, you're going to be tired tonight. Yeah, that's okay, though. That's a great day. Thanks for fitting us in. Well, thanks for having me. Always a joy. So So Becky, you have been on our show before. |
| 1:46.4 | It was a few years ago. |
| 1:51.3 | You were on an episode where we were talking about just rewriting your emotional script, which is a book that you've written. |
| 1:52.8 | Yes. |
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