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Gender: A Wider Lens

20 - Gender Dysphoria in Boys: Part 1

Gender: A Wider Lens

Sasha Ayad and Stella O'Malley

Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Mental Health

4.6961 Ratings

🗓️ 23 April 2021

⏱️ 63 minutes

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Summary

Many presume that ROGD only impacts girls, but there is a significant number of boys who appear to show the hallmark traits of Rapid-Onset Gender Dysphoria. Not quite fitting in with Ray Blanchard’s classification of homosexual transsexualism or autogynephilia, these boys tend to be softly spoken Mommy’s boys, highly intelligent and hyper-ruminative. Many prefer to remain safe at home in their bedrooms and become fixated on medical transition. In this first of two episodes, Stella and Sasha introduce some of the different ways that gender dysphoria can manifest in boys.

Links:

Ray Blanchard (1989). “The classification and labeling of nonhomosexual gender dysphorias.”  Archives of Sexual Behavior. 18 (4): 315–334. doi:10.1007/bf01541951. PMID2673136. S2CID43151898.

Blanchard R (August 2005). “Early history of the concept of autogynephilia.”  Archives of Sexual Behavior. 34 (4):

439–446. CiteSeerX10.1.1.667.7255. doi:10.1007/s10508-005-4343-8. PMID16010466. S2CID

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Michael Bailey (2003). The Man who would be Queen. Wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Man_Who_Would_Be_Queen

Anne Lawrence — (2013).  Men Trapped in Men's Bodies: Narratives of Autogynephilic Transsexualism. Springer Science+Business Media. ISBN978-1-4614-5181-5.

Angus Fox (2021) — “When Sons Become Daughters: Parents of Transitioning Boys Speak Out on Their Own Suffering” Quillette.com/author/angus-fox/

Donna M. (2021) — “You’re not trans, you’re just weird” Newdiscourses.com/2021/03/youre-not-trans-youre-just-weird/

Kellie Jay Keen Minshull — “The locker-room has a lot to answer for”

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0:00.0

You're listening to gender, a wider lens.

0:04.0

I'm Stella O'Malley, a psychotherapist in Ireland.

0:06.5

And I'm Sasha Ayad, an adolescent therapist in the United States.

0:10.6

Since 2016, my practice has been exclusively dedicated to gender questioning teens

0:16.1

and families impacted by gender dysphoria. I also work with gender questioning

0:20.7

teenagers and I facilitated support meetings for families and

0:24.2

individuals who have been impacted by gender issues. We're curious about the

0:28.1

concept of gender and how it's unfolding in the wider culture. Join us as we look at gender through a wider lens.

0:35.0

Hello there, Stella.

0:39.0

Hi Sasha, I'm looking forward to this episode.

0:42.0

Oh yes, I think we've been saying that for lots of episodes.

0:45.0

Have we?

0:47.0

Yeah, we probably have.

0:48.0

But it's all fascinating.

0:49.0

I do want to preface it with every one of these episodes we just touch upon we open it up

0:54.2

because that's the idea that we're opening up the conversation. Yeah and today we're

0:59.1

going to give an introduction to very, very important topic, which is gender dysphoria in boys.

1:09.5

And you know, we're aware that parents of boys have often felt kind of neglected by the movement to

1:18.0

you know prevent childhood transition or to bring light to this topic. And every time boys are discussed when they are,

1:27.5

which isn't often, you know, we will hear about the typologies

1:32.0

and the research of Ray Blanchard and autophilia, which are, you know, categories that were perhaps relevant at a different point in time, which continue to be relevant relevant but you and I have kind of observed

1:45.6

that there's something else going on here so we have to broaden the way we talk

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