It's annoying. How much money do you make an hour and how much time are you spending trying

to save two dollars? It doesn't make sense. And it's annoying when we go up for dinner.

You're like, I want this thing, but I'm going to get this thing because five dollars different

and 150 dollar bill who cares. He's cheap.

My guests today are Ashley and Greg. They have a household income of over $250,000.

and a substantial net worth. But what happens when only one person in a relationship wants to

spend money and the other is an aggressive or even obsessive saver.

Would your family say that you are cheap? Yes. Yeah. What about friends? Yes.

So I don't think all of them. You want to know something?

You're cheap. If your friends and family would say it, you are cheap.

It's one thing to be careful with your money. But being cheap is totally different. It puts a

strain on relationships. It shapes and changes your identity. And you end up hoarding money

with no purpose whatsoever. Why do you return all my gifts that I buy you because you don't

want me to spend money? I don't like the gifts. And the real issue that we're going to discuss today

is not about money. It's much deeper. We're going to figure out what's going on here.

Do you want to ask each other anything or share how you're feeling? No.

Today's couple is Ashley and Greg. Ashley reached out to me because there's a serious problem

in their relationship. The way that they view their finances is creating a rift between them

and it's threatening to tear them apart. There's been times where our friends want to go out for

dinner and we don't go and then we stop getting invited. Or like we're particular about like where

we want to go. They'll pick expensive places and we say can you pick something cheaper? And then I

feel like it's just a problem for them. You think you are cheap skates? There's some things that I'm

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