If you imagine if I said to you about an abusive husband,

if you can't accept him at his worst,

you don't deserve him at his best.

What?

This is nonsense. This is literally the mantra of a narcissist.

Welcome back to the Love Life podcast with Matthew Hussie.

I am Stephen Hussie, co-writer here at HowToGetTheGuide.com

and it is such a pleasure to be back on the airwaves doing this new series of episodes for you.

So, today's topic is going to be what causes relationships to end.

You know, so many people come to our blogs, to our YouTube channel

and they're looking for advice on how do I be more attractive?

How do I be charismatic, a magnetic, and how do I get that person I really want to commit to a relationship?

But there's another side to this coin that is under-discussed in my opinion,

which is, were our destructive or toxic relationship patterns

that cause our relationships to fall apart in the same way again and again and again?

And if we don't carefully look at ourselves and work on these problems,

then they can cause all our relationships, even great ones, to end in the same way.

So, I want to jump right now into Matt Live on stage talking on this exact topic.

Check it out.

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Because the thing that I've learned in this area, everyone says,

just be your best, be your best self, be your best self.

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