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The 1000 Hours Outside Podcast

1KHO 623: The Conversations That Will Protect Your Kids Online | Jessica Joelle Alexander, Raising Digital Citizens

The 1000 Hours Outside Podcast

Ginny Yurich

Parenting, Kids & Family

4.91.8K Ratings

🗓️ 17 November 2025

⏱️ 58 minutes

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Summary

When our kids step into the digital world, most of us feel like we’re handing them car keys without ever having learned to drive ourselves. In this episode, Danish parenting expert and author Jessica Joelle Alexander returns to share the tool she created when her own daughter started asking for a phone: Raising Digital Citizens conversation cards. Drawing on Denmark’s world-leading approach to happiness, character education, and digital well-being, Jessica shows how “digital independence” can become part of their modern rite of passage. Through simple, powerful questions, families learn to talk about safety, scams, manipulation, and trusted adults before a crisis hits, so kids already know what to do and who to go to when something goes wrong. Ginny and Jessica walk through real scenarios kids face every day: a bathroom photo being shared around school, “harmless” pranks that go too far, gaming scams and virtual goods, misunderstood texts and emojis, mean comments, and the pressure to be “always on” with friends. This is a hopeful, practical roadmap for raising kids who are kind, thoughtful, and safe in both the online and real worlds. Explore the cards at raisingdigitalcitizens.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Welcome to the 1000 Hours Outside podcast. My name is Ginny Urge and the founder of 1000 Hours Outside. And one of my favorite guests is back today for a second time. Jessica, Joelle, Alexander, welcome. Thank you so much for having me. So we talked last time about your book. Okay, it's raising kids the Danish way. No. Yeah, so it's the Danish way of parenting. Yes. Okay. I watch that. The. The Danish way of parenting. The Danish way of parenting. And you have a new book that's out, but not available everywhere yet. And we're going to be talking about that at the beginning of 2026. But can you tell people about the new book that came out as well? Yeah. So it's the Danish way every day. And yeah, that will be out in the US in January okay so I I love that

0:40.3

book we had so many incredible conversations about the first one then you're going to be

0:44.1

coming on to talk about the second one just about how parents you know they they parent

0:48.9

differently in different places and you were able to see that firsthand it's like one of the

0:52.9

things I bring up a lot is how the fairy tales are not the same.

0:56.7

You know, the fairy tales are not always these happy endings.

0:58.7

And so we talked about all of these different eye-opening parenting practices that you might

1:02.9

not realize exist and they can inform the way that you parent if you live in a different place.

1:07.1

So phenomenal book, highly recommend.

1:09.3

But what you have out right now is incredible. It's

1:13.5

incredible. I, you know, and I was a little skeptical, I have to be honest, because these are

1:18.6

conversation cards with kids dealing with technology. And that could really go south. I mean,

1:24.6

they could be cheesy. We've got five kids, a bunch of them are teenagers,

1:28.6

and they love dinner table questions. They're constantly asking for dinner table questions.

1:33.4

I run out of ideas. You know, I'm constantly searching for ideas. And so, you know, the true test is,

1:39.0

is a 12-year-old or 14-year-old interested in these topics? And the answer is emphatically yes. So it's called

1:46.3

the essential conversation cards for life online, raising digital citizens. We're going to be talking

1:50.8

about these cards during this conversation. But can you give a little background about your

1:54.6

journey to making these? Yes. So, I mean, I've been working in parenting for about 20 years now. And I've, you know, I've been very much focused on the Danish angle.

2:06.1

Always voted as the happiest country. My husband is Danish. You know, I wrote this book. Actually, books, I should say. But then as my, as my daughter was getting to the age of, you know phone age let's say yeah um i felt really

2:22.3

unprepared and um she was the last person she was the last person in her class to have a phone

2:28.2

and you know i knew that i was missing like i mean i knew at a certain point I couldn't put it off anymore.

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