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The 1000 Hours Outside Podcast

1KHO 608: Hospitality In The Wild | Abby Kuykendall, Let the Biscuits Burn

The 1000 Hours Outside Podcast

Ginny Yurich

Parenting, Kids & Family

4.9 • 1.8K Ratings

🗓️ 30 October 2025

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Summary

Hospitality isn’t a styled table—it’s how people feel in your presence. In this heart-tugging conversation, Abby Kuykendall reframes hospitality as the art of helping others feel known, loved, and seen—whether you meet in a tiny apartment, a messy kitchen, or a neighborhood park. She draws a bright line between entertaining (me-focused aesthetics) and hospitality (others-focused welcome), shares the spiritual roots behind “practice hospitality,” and gets real about rejection—why a few no’s shouldn’t stop you from inviting again. With stories from her own seasons of life, Abby shows how rhythms change (hello, nap schedules) but the mission doesn’t, and why outdoor gatherings often make connection simpler, cheaper, and more relaxed. You’ll leave with practical moves you can try tonight: start with an invitation, set two or three “non-negotiables” (clean-ish bathroom, empty sink, drinks ready), and keep food simple—potlucks with specific asks, air-fried crowd-pleasers, or even “waffles at 10” after a game. Abby also spotlights her cookbook The Living Table and the snack-drawer mindset that tells guests, “Make yourself at home.” If you’ve ever delayed community until your house, budget, or schedule looked “perfect,” this episode is your permission slip to begin—outside if you can, imperfectly on purpose, with an invitation that opens the door to real connection. Get your copy of Let the Biscuits Burn here Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Welcome to the 1000 Hours Outside podcast. My name is Ginny O'Hurich. I'm the founder of 1000 Hours Outside. We're going to be talking about hospitality today, which is a word that can cause some people to break out in a cold sweat and they're looking around their house. There's like cobwebs everywhere. And I used to have a friend that talked about how often, like, she was on a schedule for cleaning her baseboards. and I was like, I didn't even know that

0:21.0

was a thing. And so an author of his brand new book called Let the Biscuits Burn, Cultivating Real

0:26.8

Life Hospitality in a World Craving Connection. Abby Kirkendall, welcome. Jenny, thank you so much.

0:34.3

Let me first off say, I am such a big fan of yours. And the whole 1,000 hours outside,

0:40.1

I mean, what a way to just get families connected and do things outside. Man, that's one thing

0:47.9

that my mom always said that she wished we would have, you know, just did more of was, you know,

0:53.1

maybe travel to the national parks instead of go to the beach

0:56.2

at the same time every year you know like just add some of that variety in in our life and get get us

1:01.9

outside and maybe make me more of an outside cat than an inside one but you know you know i tell you

1:07.7

what i didn't grow up doing a ton of stuff outside except that that there was less TV, so we were outside just more naturally.

1:12.6

And we did do, we went on vacations and things like that.

1:14.9

But at this point, you know, even though I'm not like some super outdoorsy person, I still find that especially in a technological age, it just helps us all feel better.

1:24.8

So I'd love to kick it off here.

1:26.3

There's a couple of things.

1:27.1

First of all,

1:28.0

you can be hospitable outdoors. You can. And that does in a lot of ways, makes things a little bit easier. So we're going to get into the nitty gritty of being hospitable in your home, in your story. And then also you have a cookbook. So people are like being hospitable in their home and they want to have some different recipes.

1:50.3

You can help them out with that. But I just love this part you talked about invitation. And so like we're trying to get outside. And one of the key parts about getting outside, Abby, is having friends.

1:56.3

You know, people are like, well, my kid doesn't want to go. I'm like, well, they would want to go if you had a

2:00.6

friend coming. And so you're talking this book about the importance of invitations. And I had heard one time, I don't know if you're going to agree with this or not. I'm curious what your take is. I heard someone say one time, hospitality is about how you make people feel. I was like, that's kind of deep.

2:17.8

You know, I would have thought like hospitality is about your throw pillows.

2:20.9

And they were like, hospitality is about how you make people feel.

2:24.0

Like, do they feel welcome in your presence?

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