In this episode, Ginny welcomes the insightful Dr. Morgan Cutlip, author of "Love Your Kids Without Losing Yourself," as they explore the various facets of the motherhood journey. From the initial expectations of crushing it in motherhood to grappling with the loss of freedom and overwhelming responsibilities, Morgan shares personal experiences and valuable insights. She discusses the importance of understanding unmet needs through our complaints, emphasizing the challenge of balancing personal growth with the demands of motherhood. Discover the concept of "shefault instead of default" and delve into the mental load that mothers often bear. The conversation navigates through topics like replenishing willpower, the mutual benefits of motherhood, and the symbiotic relationship between a mother and her children, likened to bees and flowers working together. Morgan sheds light on the relationship attachment model, empowering listeners to understand themselves deeply and meet their needs effectively. They discuss the significance of communicating needs to be loved well and unravel the art of closing stress loops through nature, humor, movement, and self-mothering practices. Tune in to learn how to thrive in motherhood, embrace the beauty of self-discovery, and create a harmonious balance between parenting and personal growth. To explore more insights, visit drmorgancutlip.com and mylovethinks.com. Stay tuned for a captivating journey towards empowered motherhood and a fulfilling life. ** This episode is brought to you by Active Skin Repair. Don't forget to take advantage of a 20% discount on your Active Skin Repair order using code "1000hours" at checkout Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices