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Today we're talking about defining a successful blow job in your marriage.

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So we're talking about defining a successful blow job in your marriage.

And you guys know I love to start off the show with a quote.

And so here's this quote from actor W.C. Fields and just listen and then let me explain it.

How it applies to the topic. That's what I mean. So if at first you don't succeed,

try, try again. Then quit. There's no point in being a damn fool about it. And I saw this when I started laughing because so often when we're dealing with the topic of trying something new or trying to have a breakthrough in our

marriage. We almost get to the point where we're beating the dead horse. We just

we try, we try, we try, we try, we try, we stop, we try, we try, we try, we try, and we don't ever just take a break

And we don't just quit just go you know what that doesn't work and table it and we've had this experience in our own marriage and we're gonna we're gonna be sharing some of our bloopers and things like that.

But before we do, we've got a hug that I want to share.

You guys know how much the iTunes ratings and reviews mean not just to us because that is a huge way to give us a hug but how much they impact other people when you take the time to do that we're humbled because you're

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