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The Ultimate Health Podcast

194: John Gray - Beyond Mars And Venus • Role Mate vs Soul Mate Relationship • Getting Your Sex Hormones Back On Track

The Ultimate Health Podcast

Jesse Chappus

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4.51.5K Ratings

🗓️ 7 November 2017

⏱️ 59 minutes

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Summary

John Gray is the author of the most well-known and trusted relationship book of all time, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus.

The focus of our interview was on his most recent book, Beyond Mars and Venus, which came out early this year and shares a new relationship model for couples of today. We’ve now moved from role mate to soul mate relationships.

John teaches us how to have a fulfilling partnership and lasting happiness.

In this episode, we discuss:

  • John's parents drove across the country so he could be blessed by Yoganada
  • Being Maharishi's personal assistant for 9 years
  • Generating the original ideas for Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
  • John was a celibate monk till about age 28
  • Today we expect more from our relationships
  • The newness of a relationship will stimulate passion
  • What's changed in 25 years since writing his classic book?
  • Today were seeing an epidemic of low testosterone in men and low estrogen in women
  • Getting your sex hormones back on track
  • Role mate vs soul mate relationship
  • Same sex marriages
  • Most relationship challenges occur because we have unrealistic expectations of our partner or ourselves
  • The art of a man venting his feelings
  • Accountability a powerful dopamine and testosterone stimulator
  • What is intimacy?
  • Cave time for men
  • How can couples keep things fresh if they work together all day?
  • Tongkat Ali and NADH
  • Men and women’s main complaints about each other
  • Appreciation boosts a man's testosterone
  • The most powerful estrogen stimulator for women is to be heard
  • Lithium orotate can regulate stress in your brain

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Transcript

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0:00.0

as that self actualization began to emerge based upon freedom,

0:04.3

what's happening is it's too confining for women to be in a traditional female role

0:09.2

for many women and too confining for many men to be in just a traditional male role and we shifted to a soulmate relationship. Hello and

0:25.0

Jesse Chapp is here with Marnie Wasserman and we are here on a weekly basis to take your health to the next level.

0:33.7

This week our featured guest is John Gray.

0:36.0

He's the author of the most well-known and trusted relationship book of all time.

0:40.1

Men are from Mars, women are from Venus.

0:42.7

His most recent book Beyond Mars and Venus came out early this year

0:46.2

and he shares a new relationship model for couples of today.

0:49.7

We've now moved from the rolemate to the soulmate relationship which John addresses in our

0:54.1

chat. He teaches us how to have a fulfilling partnership and lasting happiness.

0:58.9

It was such a pleasure to have John on the podcast. I've seen his book on my parent shelf for years so it was great to finally

1:04.8

have him on the show and I'm sure a lot of you guys can relate this is a book that most people know about and him

1:10.8

bringing the new information beyond Mars and Venus to our show is amazing and

1:14.9

here is some of what we get into today.

1:17.2

We talk about John's experience being Maharishi's personal assistant for nine years.

1:21.4

We get into what's changed in 25 years since writing his first

1:24.4

classic book. We talk about getting her sex hormones back on track. How can couples

1:29.4

keep things fresh even when they're working together. This was especially important for

1:33.5

Jesse and I. And lastly we get into men and women's main complaints about each

1:38.0

other. You guys are definitely going to want to hear this. Get ready. Here we go

1:41.5

with John Gray. Hi John, how are you? Welcome to the

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