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Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex

#194: Enjoying Date Nights With Your Spouse

Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex

Authentic Intimacy®

Relationships, Society & Culture, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

4.91.7K Ratings

🗓️ 12 February 2018

⏱️ 34 minutes

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Summary

Regardless of how long you’ve been married, date nights are still important! On today’s Java with Juli, Juli talks with Dr. Greg and Erin Smalley on how to make time for dates, how to initiate good communication (and topics to avoid while on a date!) and the importance of reconnecting regularly away from your home and kids.

 

Dr. Greg & Erin Smalley

 

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Happy Valentine's Day, and because this week is Valentine's Day, we're going to be talking

0:06.1

about the importance of dating your spouse, and for today's episode, we thought a perfect sponsor

0:11.2

would be Comey. Now, Comey is this really cool babysitting app where you can swap babysitting points

0:17.3

with your friends and make it easier to manage.

0:21.5

You watch my kids, I'll watch yours, and make that fair.

0:24.7

You're going to hear more about how Comey works later in the show,

0:28.3

but I just wanted to say thank you to Comey for sponsoring this episode of Java with Julie.

0:34.4

Well, for Java with Julie this week, I'm having a date with Greg and Aaron Smalley. Oh, I like that. And we're going to talk about dates. Yeah. I can't say it's a date night because it's not a nighttime. We're having a date day day. It's a day date. A coffee date. And Greg loves to have coffee dates. I do. Do you really? No, part of me. I was going to say that's kind of a chick thing.

0:56.0

I hate coffee and then we just sit and stare at each other deeply in the eyes.

1:00.9

It doesn't do it for me.

1:01.9

Really?

1:02.4

Oh.

1:03.0

Take me hiking.

1:04.5

Get me out doing something and I'll talk all day long.

1:07.6

But yeah, just holding a hot beverage that I don't like anyway. Just, not me? So we'll never have a job with Greg. Probably not. Yes. We could have hiking with Greg or fishing with Greg. You got to think of something with a G. A G. Or video games with Greg or... I don't know. What starts with a G?

1:29.5

I can't think of anything.

1:31.3

Sorry, galloping with Greg.

1:32.7

Yeah, because horses also are my favorite things.

1:35.7

There you go, you can have a podcast and marriage.

1:38.5

No, a marriage and horse podcast.

1:40.5

Yeah, seriously, I was traumatized here in Colorado Springs.

1:44.7

I was forced at work to go with my colleagues on a horse ride.

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