This is the Terry Cole show and as you might have guessed I'm your host Terry Cole.

For over two decades I've been a licensed

psychotherapist love and boundaries expert and I'm also the founder of the

Rail of Revolution and Boundary Boot Camp. On this show I'll bring you simple strategies based on

practical psychology, inspiring expert interviews, and my own insights and observations

from my time on the front lines in the fascinating world of entertainment, empowerment, and mental health.

Now let's get going with today's episode. I'm super excited to welcome Dana B. Myers to the show and a little bit for

those of you who may not know my friend Dana. she is an award-winning product developer

entrepreneur author and media personality I know her because she is the founder of

booty-poller so this is an online place where you can buy things and toys and clothes right is that correct there makeup

Every cosmetics oils all kinds of things super fun but really Dana has done, what we're going to be talking

about today, is that she's changed the lives of thousands of women by inspiring them to boost

their sensual self-confidence and create sexier, more satisfying relationships.

Who doesn't want that?

So today we're really talking about reclaiming your sensuality after having kids. So welcome Dane. Thanks Terry. Thanks

for having me on again. Thanks for all your support and love. Right on man because you're my go to when it comes to this type of step. So I super appreciate your knowledge and how you handle things with humor because you know if we can't

Yeah, what are we doing right totally you're asked if you can't laugh, that's for sure.

That's for sure.

Yeah, and you know often this is just a subject, sex and sensuality,

before kids after kids, it's often a subject that people don't feel humorous about they feel timid or shy or anxious so I do like to you know just bring a little humor and just kind of some frankness to it.

Right a little levity though because the reality is you have figured it out and what is great for the

women in my crew who've benefited from your wisdom is that you're really an expert on this stuff and so shedding light where you basically are removing the shame or you know we have all of these high expectations of like we should just pop out a baby walk out of the hospital in our skinny jeans and then just want to be getting down that night which you know I married my children so I didn't have that experience but most women

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