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Streetwise Hebrew

#191 You Don't Own Me

Streetwise Hebrew

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Language Learning, Judaism, Religion & Spirituality, Education

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๐Ÿ—“๏ธ 28 November 2017

โฑ๏ธ 10 minutes

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Summary

Gay marriage is new to the world, and Hebrew, a gender-based language, has to face the music and find new ways to talk about it. On this episode, Guy talks about an email from a married gay listener.

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Words and expressions discussed:

Lahatab โ€“ LGBT โ€“ ืœื”ื˜"ื‘ โ€“ ืœืกื‘ื™ื•ืช, ื”ื•ืžื•ืื™ื, ื˜ืจื ืก, ื‘ื™
Zeh ishi โ€“ This is my man โ€“ ื–ื” ืื™ืฉื™
Zeh ba'ali โ€“ This is my husband โ€“ ื–ื” ื‘ืขืœื™
Zeh ben hazug sheli / Ze haben-zug sheli โ€“ ื–ื” ื‘ืŸ ื”ื–ื•ื’ ืฉืœื™ / ื–ื” ื”ื‘ื ื–ื•ื’ ืฉืœื™
U-ma im ba'ala yod'ea โ€“ And what if her husband knows โ€“ ื•ืžื” ืื ื‘ืขืœื” ื™ื•ื“ืข
Ba'al โ€“ Husband, owner โ€“ ื‘ืขืœ
Ba'al ha-bait (Balabayit) โ€“ Landlord, business owner, boss โ€“ ื‘ืขืœ ื”ื‘ื™ืช
Ba'ali โ€“ My husband โ€“ ื‘ืขืœื™
Liv'ol โ€“ To have intercourse with someone โ€“ ืœื‘ืขื•ืœ
Be'ila โ€“ Intercourse โ€“ ื‘ืขื™ืœื”
Bba'alo โ€“ His husband โ€“ ื‘ืขืœื•
Ishta โ€“ Her wife โ€“ ืื™ืฉืชื”
Efshar ledaber im ha-balabayit? โ€“ May I speak to the owner? โ€“ ืืคืฉืจ ืœื“ื‘ืจ ืขื ื”ื‘ืขืœื‘ื™ืช
Ba'al ha-bayit hishtage'a โ€“ The landlord became crazy โ€“ ื‘ืขืœ ื”ื‘ื™ืช ื”ืฉืชื’ืข
Ba'al hayim โ€“ Animal โ€“ ื‘ืขืœ ื—ื™ื™ื
Ba'aley hayim โ€“ Animals โ€“ ื‘ืขืœื™ ื—ื™ื™ื, ื‘ืข"ื—
Be'alim โ€“ Owner (also: husbands) โ€“ ื‘ืขืœื™ื
Ata ha-be'alim โ€“ You are the owner โ€“ ืืชื” ื”ื‘ืขืœื™ื
Efo ha-be'alim? โ€“ Where is the owner/Where are the owners? -ืื™ืคื” ื”ื‘ืขืœื™ื?
Efo ha-ba'al? โ€“ Where is the husband? โ€“ ืื™ืคื” ื”ื‘ืขืœ?
Az kach ba'alut al ha-neches shelcha โ€“ So take ownership of your asset โ€“ ืื– ืงื— ื‘ืขืœื•ึผืช ืขืœ ื”ื ื›ืก ืฉืœืš
Ba'alut โ€“ Ownership โ€“ ื‘ืขืœื•ึผืช
Lakachat ba'alut โ€“ To take ownership โ€“ ืœืงื—ืช ื‘ืขืœื•ึผืช

Playlist:
David Broza โ€“ Sigaliyotย (lyrics)
Omer Adam โ€“ Wai Liย (lyrics)
Eden Ben Zaken โ€“ Ba Li Odย (lyrics)
Animals (ba'aley hayim) for kids
Manual for home ownership (ba'alut)

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Transcript

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0:00.0

This is T.L. V. 1.

0:10.0

St.C.

0:11.0

Wise.

0:12.0

Shiloh, it's me Guy with Street wise Hebrew.

0:16.0

I just got back from my honeymoon with husband Laurent in California.

0:20.0

Husband, what a word.

0:22.0

In English, you've got the word partner, which everybody uses.

0:25.8

This is especially true between LGBTQ couples. Some people want to celebrate the fact that

0:31.8

we can now get married in some countries and

0:34.9

want to use the word husband in English.

0:37.8

A few days ago I got an email from listener Frank Yellen, who wrote from Redwood City, California,

0:43.5

Mazeltoven your recent wedding,

0:45.4

to the Abba Frank.

0:46.8

And he writes, so this brings up a quick question,

0:50.0

how would I as a gay man refer to my husband when I want to make clear that he is my husband and not my partner or my boyfriend?

0:59.0

The Ishii, Zeba Ali, Zebana Zkshali seems ambiguous in a way that I'm trying to avoid.

1:06.2

Todafrang for the question, I'm with you as I too am not sure what to do? I'm a t so ekeet.

1:14.0

Uma imba ala y'or deha.

1:18.0

Ima stila eitha

1:20.0

a jera.

1:22.0

Uma imba ala y Yodea and what if her husband knows?

1:27.0

Bala, bet a in Lamad, he, her husband.

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