Welcome to sex chat for Christian wives.

We're four marriage and sex bloggers discuss the naked truth.

What does God really want for the sexual intimacy in our marriage?

I'm Jay Parker of Hot Holy and Humorous.

I'm Chris Taylor from The Forgiven Wife.

I'm Gay Christmas of Calm, Healthy, Sexy.

I'm Bonnie Burns of Oyster Bed 7. Today's topic is initiating sex with your husband. Yep, we want to help you make overtures that scream, let's get busy hot stuff.

Whether you are a low drive wife or a high drive wife, we'll be addressing common issues

wives have with making their sexual interest understood. Why is it important for a wife to initiate

sex, ladies, and does it really matter?

So I do think it is important to initiate because both, I think that maybe a typical answer is because that's good for your husband and your husband wants you to initiate.

But I think it's also good for women because it says this is something that's important for me too

and I'm going to devote some energy to getting myself in the place where I want to initiate

and have interest in sex and have it be.

So I think it's important for both husbands and wives,

but I think I'm particularly interested in the fact that I think it's important for wives

because it's part of saying, hey, I'm a sexual person too.

This is for me also.

This is important to me.

Initiating was a really important part of my journey from resisting sex all the time to being sex positive.

One of the big frustrations I had was when I would be in the middle of something else and my

husband would come and, you know, try to do his thing and I'd be thinking, but I'm in the

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