You can have it all,

have it all, whatever that means.

Usually having it all means you have a great family life and an incredible career.

You can do that. In fact, I encourage you to set really big goals as we head into this year, 2024, I encourage you to set really big goals,

dream big, be ambitious, all of that.

And if you have a family or you want a family,

you can have an amazing family life too. But it won't look like what

it looks like for the influencers, for the ice bath people. That was an entire episode last week. The key is you will have to be

scrappy. That is the word I finally nailed the word that encapsulates what it feels like to do this village

hustle thing essentially village hustle is kind of the having it all model you have a

support system you have a community you're connected to your

fellow human beings but you're also hustling you're also doing interesting things the

operative word here is scrappy because you won't be able to keep to your habits perfectly.

We've touched on this on the past couple of episodes and I want to tie it in a bow and bring it all together to give you kind of one thesis I guess you could say of what

this looks like actually in practice and if I pass out at any point during this episode it is just because I'm doing an

extreme eating plan I will lay it out for you guys if it works I'm not trying to be mysterious about this you

know how some people are like I'm doing a I'm doing an eating plan but you know

it's like it's private it's just this is just something for me I'm always like I will show up at your house with a knife if you do not tell me if it works you better spill you better tell me what you did that works

that's good I just ensured that this episode will get no views

in the YouTube algorithm.

Listen, YouTube algorithm, I won't, I'm not actually,

it's a fake knife with a butter knife,

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