189: How to Trigger a Man's Hero Instinct

The Empowered Wife Podcast: Marriage Help with Laura Doyle

Laura Doyle

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🗓️ 4 July 2023

⏱️ 42 minutes

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Men are highly motivated to make their wives happy. Notice I didn’t say “some men” or “most men” but just “men.” That’s because in my research where I asked thousands of men how important it is that their wife is happy, they ALL said the same thing. That it’s the most important thing, everything, it’s of utmost importance, or in the UK, they said it’s imperative. In other words, they all wanted to feel like their wife’s hero. You might even think, like I thought, that your man is one of those rare men who doesn’t have a hero instinct. A lot of our students thought that too, but I’m happy to say we were all wrong. On today’s episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast we’re talking about how to trigger a man's hero instinct. I’ll share 5 ways to trigger his hero gene—and how you could be unwittingly sabotaging his opportunities to be your hero.

My guest Jamiee Lee slapped her husband, and then, she found out he was cheating. It’s not a stretch to say they hated each other. Then she read the book The Empowered Wife and from the minute she tried the 6 Intimacy Skills™, she knew they were working. Today, she says her husband just wants to be her hero, and her marriage is 100 times better. She’s going to tell us how she triggered his hero gene so you can do it too.

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0:25.2	Welcome to the Impart Wife Podcast where it's all about fixing your marriage without your husband's conscious effort so that you feel desired, taking care of and special, even if your marriage feels completely hopeless. I'm Laura Doyle and today I'm revealing how to trigger a man's hero instinct. My guest Jamie Lee slapped her
0:31.5	husband and then she found out he was cheating. It's not a stretch to say they hated each
0:38.0	other. Then she read the book The Empowered Wife and from the minute she tried the six intimacy skills she knew they were working.
0:46.7	Today she says her husband just wants to be her hero and her marriage is a hundred times better.
0:54.8	She's going to tell us how she triggered his hero gene so you can do it too. I'm also going to go over five ways that you can
1:00.8	trigger a man's hero instinct because men are highly motivated to make
1:06.3	their wives happy and notice I didn't say some men or most men but but just men.
1:12.8	That's because in my research where I asked thousands of men
1:15.9	how important it was to them, that their wives were happy.
1:19.2	They all said the same thing.
1:21.4	They said, that's the most important thing or it's everything. It's of
1:25.6	utmost importance or in the UK they said it's imperative. In other words they all wanted to feel like their wife's hero.
1:36.8	And you might even think like I did that your man is one of those rare men
1:41.3	who just doesn't have a hero instinct.
1:45.0	A lot of my students thought that too,
1:46.9	but I'm happy to say we were all wrong.
1:51.9	If you were raised like I was to be independent so you don't need a hero because you can do everything for yourself, then you might be unwittingly sabotaging your man's opportunities to be your hero.
2:04.9	Here are five ways to trigger his hero instinct. Number one, expect the best from him.
2:13.2	All heroes have their kryptonite,
2:16.0	and questioning your man's competence because you're afraid he's going to make a mistake
2:20.1	is one sure way to make him weak.
2:23.0	Praise is like,
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