188. Making Sex More Awesome: Interview With A Sexological Body Worker

You Are Not Broken

Kelly Casperson, MD

Medicine, Health & Fitness

5 • 743 Ratings

🗓️ 4 December 2022

⏱️ 56 minutes

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Summary

Meet Sylvie B – a sexological body worker in training! Many people struggle in their intimate relationships, whether because of pain, perceived dysfunction, loss of libido, mismatched libido and, most pervasively, shame. Many people have also experienced trauma, low self-esteem, and frustration over the limits to their pleasure. Somatic sex education is about exploring our sexual challenges through breaking down the autopilot and the worn out old patterns we rely on for whatever reason, which limit our erotic pleasure and full self-expression. Good sex more than just the absence of pain. Why do people come see a sexological body worker? What is Somatic Sex Education and sexological bodywork? Not many people are used to being asked how they would like to be touched. Some people get really frustrated because they realize they just don’t know. And that they have never looked too deeply into that. That can bring up feelings of guilt or shame. Tips for squirting How do you want to feel during sex? Tips for tuning in to the very subtle frequency of what people actually desire. What to do when people feel numb? How do we emerge from shame and trauma? How do we set and communicate boundaries as women in our relationships? The pleasure of the soft cock – what to tell men with ED. What to do. Let’s talk about this problem – middle age pelvis – menopause versus viagra Find Out More https://somaticsexeducator.com/ https://www.instagram.com/s3xandsensibility/ https://mysexandsensibility.com/ Did you get the You Are Not Broken Book Yet? https://amzn.to/3p18DfK Join my membership to get these episodes ASAP when they are created and without advertisement and even listen live to the interviews and episodes. www.kellycaspersonmd.com/membership Our podcast sponsor is Bonafide Bonafide products help women embrace the natural changes that occur throughout all phases of life. Discount code for 20% off:NOTBROKEN Sales link: https://hellobonafide.com/notbroken --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kj-casperson/message Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	You are listening to You Are Not Broken, the only podcast that combines science, medicine, and psychology to re-educate your brain and help you live your best love life.
0:11.4	And I'm your host, board certified female urologist, Dr. Kelly Casperson.
0:16.1	Hey friends, welcome back.
0:17.7	I am so excited today to welcome my new friend, Sylvie B, who we met on
0:22.4	Instagram. We're all friends meet. So thanks for meeting me on Instagram. Thanks, Kelly. I mean,
0:27.7	I've been so inspired by your posts and your podcast, and it's such an honor to be on here. I'm such a
0:33.7	fan girl. Now I feel like I'm in this sort of celeb moment where I'm like, oh, I'm talking to
0:38.7	my idols. Oh, you're too kind. Well, I want to have you on because I think you're the first
0:43.3	sexological body worker. I was like literally, I'm like, I'm a urologist. I say complicated
0:47.7	words like copyloklysis. And I'm like, I have to practice sexological. But now it rolls off the tongue a lot better. But I don't say sexological very much.
0:56.0	We call each other sex bonds.
0:57.9	That's the shortened term.
0:59.0	Sex bods.
1:00.3	Yeah.
1:00.7	So when I'm talking to another sex logical body worker, I'll say, oh, this is my colleague.
1:05.0	She's another sex bod.
1:06.5	Awesome.
1:07.2	Okay.
1:07.4	So what does that mean to each other? It means that you work with the body to help people have better sex?
1:14.7	Yeah, it does. So it's a relatively new profession, though it's not that new. The first sexological
1:21.1	bodyworkers were back in the 80s, and Joseph Kramer is the father of all sex logical bodywork. And it sort of arose out of the
1:30.2	out of the 80s when AIDS was was a big issue. And there were people who were working with people
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