188. Abusive Attitudes and Behaviors with Lindsay Poelman

Overcome Pornography for Good

Sara Brewer

Christianity, Sexuality, Religion & Spirituality, Health & Fitness

5 • 679 Ratings

🗓️ 19 August 2024

⏱️ 44 minutes

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Summary

To dive into abusive attitudes and behaviors, boundaries, and worthiness wounds, I’m joined by Lindsay Poelman this week. Lindsay started as a betrayal trauma coach for women whose husbands view porn and is now a facilitator for Trauma-Informed coaches. She’s here to shed light on how worthiness wounds can contribute to abusive attitudes and behaviors, and what you can do to start the healing process.

Discover the emotional wounds that often contribute to abusive dynamics in relationships. Lindsay and I explore examples of how abusive attitudes and behaviors can manifest, why you’re more likely to exhibit abusive tendencies if you have deep worthiness wounds, and Lindsay’s brain hacks for setting boundaries and creating a sense of self-safety.

Get full show notes and more information here: https://www.centerforovercomingpornography.com/blog/abusive-attitudes-behaviors-lindsay-poelman

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0:00.0	You are listening to the Overcome Pornography for Good Podcast, episode 188, Abusive Attitudes and Behaviors with Lindsay Pullman.
0:10.6	Welcome to the Overcome Pornography for Good podcast where we take a research-based, trauma-informed, and results-focused approach to quitting porn.
0:23.8	This approach has been revolutionary and changed thousands and thousands of lives. I'm your host, Sarah Brewer. All right, everyone,
0:30.0	welcome to today's podcast episode. Today we are meeting again with Lindsay Pullman, who I just love.
0:36.2	Lindsay, do you want to say hey? Hi, everyone.
0:39.7	So Lindsay and I today, we're going to be talking about abusive behaviors and attitudes,
0:44.8	emotional abuse, worthiness, boundaries, a bunch of these topics, some things I really wanted
0:49.4	to talk about for a while. And Lindsay is just, can I call you an expert? Like an expert on this? And just,
0:57.6	you know, she teaches it in her certification program. She's just like a great person to talk with
1:02.5	about all of this. And I love having these conversations with her. So if you don't know Lindsay
1:08.4	yet, let me introduce you. She does certifications for coaches,
1:16.7	trauma-informed certifications, advanced certifications. And then she also has started doing
1:21.4	certifications for brand new people who want to be coaches. And then what else, Lindsay,
1:26.2	how else do you want to introduce yourself?
1:28.9	Yeah, I started out doing, I started out doing a lot of betrayal trauma coaching for women
1:33.4	whose husbands looked at porn. And this is where I got more training in this so that I could
1:40.1	really, really support women in understanding some of these, like, sneaky ways where,
1:45.4	you know, they might be on the receiving end of emotional abuse. But also, I, my heart is like,
1:52.9	you know, because I've been coaching in your program for as long as I have, you know, the guest
1:55.9	coaching here and there, I've been able to coach men. We want to make sure that men are, men are, have an
2:03.1	understanding of what it is as well so that they can set appropriate boundaries in their marriage
2:06.7	to and not have something kind of like hung over their heads. Like, well, you look to porn,
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