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185. Peaceful Parenting: Getting on the Same Team as Your Child with @destini.ann

HERself

Abby and Amy

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🗓️ 12 June 2023

⏱️ 35 minutes

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Summary

Destini Ann Davis is our guest today. She is a parenting coach, a working mom, and the author of Very Intentional Parenting: How to Raise Empowered Kids. She approaches parenting in a peaceful manner. Today, she talks with us about what this means and explains it in a way that we are all on the same team and we’re all trying to figure things out together.


Destini focuses on the energy that we can bring to parenting to really help everyone be more positive and peaceful and in return, we can raise children who are the same. She answers our questions on whether or not peaceful parents are raising entitled children, what to do when our approach to parenting differs from our partner, and how to use reflection and intention setting in parenting.


The continuing message throughout our conversation is centered around encouraging the parent and child to connect and communicate. If this episode resonated with you, we would love for you to share it on your Instagram stories and tag both @herselfpodcast and @destini.ann.


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Transcript

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0:00.0

Like media and toys and games and all of that stuff

0:03.4

comes after certain expectations, certain responsibilities are done.

0:07.2

And I'm like, I want you to be able to be on your tablet.

0:10.2

Like I want you to call your friends.

0:12.2

We are on the same team with that.

0:14.2

How can we get that done as opposed to you're not

0:17.4

going to be able to do this until you do this?

0:19.8

It just puts all of the focus on not being

0:23.1

able to do something that she wants to do.

0:24.6

And psychologically speaking, that's

0:26.7

what they're going to focus on.

0:27.7

They're not going to focus on the route

0:29.1

to what they want to do.

0:29.9

They're just focused on the fact that you're basically

0:32.3

trying to take it from them.

0:34.5

And it takes away that teamwork part.

0:41.9

I'm Amy.

0:43.2

And I'm Abby.

0:44.8

And as women, we are constantly comparing ourselves

0:47.6

to others.

0:48.9

But your life isn't supposed to look like hers.

0:52.1

Being your best self means standing firm in your decisions

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