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Mormon Stories Podcast

185: Navigating a Marriage When One of You Loses Their LDS Testimony Pt. 4

Mormon Stories Podcast

Dr. John Dehlin

Religion & Spirituality

4.55.7K Ratings

🗓️ 9 September 2010

⏱️ 33 minutes

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Summary

This segment is part of an all day workshop held at the August 2010 Salt Lake Sunstone Symposium. The first half of the day was dedicated to navigating a faith crisis in or out of the LDS church. The second half of the day was dedicated to navigating a marriage when one of the partners loses their faith.

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Hi, this is John Delin. Thank you for joining us today on Mormon Stories.

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What you're about to hear is part of an all-day workshop recorded at the Salt Lake Sunstone

0:09.6

Symposium on August 4, 2010. The first half of the day was dedicated to navigating an LDS

0:16.0

faith crisis in or out of the LDS Church, and the second half of the day was dedicated to

0:21.1

navigating an LDS marriage when one of you loses their faith. Since I'm in graduate school,

0:26.6

I put this workshop on, in part, to help raise money from my family's health insurance.

0:31.2

So my initial intent was to only share this workshop with those of you who contributed

0:35.6

financially to the podcast. However, many of you, my financial supporters, have encouraged me to

0:41.4

go ahead and release the full workshop anyway so that all can benefit. So that's what I've

0:46.3

decided to do, but I'm doing it with the plea. If you have not contributed to Mormon stories,

0:52.0

and you find value in this workshop, please take a moment to contribute to Mormon stories

0:56.7

today at MormonStories.org, either with a one-time donation or signing up for a monthly subscription.

1:02.7

Without this support, I cannot continue to create this content for others and for you.

1:08.0

So thanks so much to all of you who are monthly subscribers, and please keep in touch through

1:12.5

email at MormonStories at gmail.com, and now onto the workshop. I hope you enjoy.

1:17.7

Yeah, I have a question about this collusion scale that you drew just because I see this happening

1:24.3

in my relationship. You said you didn't go down. You didn't go to the temple. That was never really

1:31.6

your thing, right? Okay, my husband never released to go that much either until I started on my journey.

1:39.9

And now, dang it, he goes every single month a couple of times. And I'm just wondering from the

1:47.5

orthodox, I know a few of you in here said you were, what are the motivations for that?

1:53.8

Is it a compensating thing? Is it because the believing spouse feels like now all the burden

2:02.0

of religiosity and spirituality rests on him or her? And now they have to drag themselves and the

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