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We Can Do Hard Things

184. When You’re Glad Your Mom Died with Jennette McCurdy

We Can Do Hard Things

Treat Media and Glennon Doyle

Relationships, Education, Self-improvement, Society & Culture

4.842.7K Ratings

🗓️ 28 February 2023

⏱️ 54 minutes

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Summary

1. Why no one talks about the complicated feelings of freedom after the death of a toxic loved one. 2. How Jennette’s mom enforced extreme calorie restriction to control and bond with Jennette, and the moment her body finally said, No. 3. What led Jennette to step away from acting after her iCarly stardom, and why she doesn’t think “resilient” is a compliment. 4. How Jennette found herself still “doing her mother’s work” in therapy – and how she stopped forcing forgiveness. 5. Why – when you’ve grown up in an environment of chaos and volatility – healthy, comfortable relationships can feel boring.  6. Jennette's relationship with her inner voice – and how she understands and experiences Obsessive-compulsive disorder today. CW // eating disorders, toxic relationships  About Jennette: Jennette McCurdy is the New York Times Bestselling author of I’m Glad My Mom Died, which stayed at #1 on the NYT bestseller list for eight consecutive weeks and has remained on the list for 24. In her memoir, Jennette dives into her struggles as a former child actor—including eating disorders, addiction, and a complicated relationship with her overbearing mother—and how she retook control of her life. Jennette has been honored as part of the 2022 TIME100 Next list, and her debut fiction novel will be released in 2024. TW: @jennettemccurdy IG: @jennettemccurdy

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0:00.0

I walk through a fire, I came out the other side.

0:10.1

Okay, welcome to We Can Do Hard Things, we have a big treat for you today.

0:15.9

Jeanette McCurdy is the New York Times bestselling author of, I'm Glad My Mom Died, which stayed

0:22.3

at number one on the New York Times bestseller list for eight consecutive weeks and has remained

0:27.6

on the list for 24, in her memoir, Jeanette dives into her struggles as a former child actor,

0:33.4

including eating disorders, addiction, and a complicated relationship with her overbearing mother,

0:38.4

and how she retook control of her life. Jeanette has been honored as part of the 2022 time 100

0:44.3

next list, and her debut fiction novel will be released in 2024, which I find very exciting.

0:51.0

Yes, today. I read your book when it came out. Oh, thank you.

0:55.9

Love it. I was thinking this morning about why I was so excited about it. And first of all,

1:00.5

I feel like sometimes people have a great story. And so no matter what they write, it's going to

1:05.2

be good. People are going to like it. And sometimes people are just great writers. And so no

1:09.5

matter what they write, it's going to be good. And then every once in a while, there's somebody who

1:12.7

has a great story. And she was a great writer. Your book, fantastic fucking story. But also,

1:21.5

your writing is so fresh and so exciting and so different. We've been so excited for this

1:29.6

conversation. We all adore you. How are you today? I'm so excited to be here. Thank you so much

1:36.9

for the kind words coming from you. I almost can't even believe it. You know, when somebody that

1:41.6

you really respect and look up to so much doesn't think it's just like, I feel dizzy right now.

1:46.9

I truly feel so excited. I just think you're just the best and the way that you write

1:53.4

and make your work accessible so that it can be healing to others. It's helped me heal so much.

2:00.3

It's so rare. I think to be able to make something entertaining and meaningful at the same time.

2:07.0

And you do that. And so just the kind words from you is just beyond. And thank you.

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