184. How to be a Real Man

Bedros Keuilian Podcast Show

Bedros Keuilian

Self-improvement, Education

5 • 2.2K Ratings

🗓️ 12 April 2021

⏱️ 25 minutes

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Summary

How do you show up as a man? Do you suffer in silence, always walking on eggshells, act passive-aggressive, and eventually become hostile towards those around you?

Instead of dealing with your issues head-on, do you suppress those feelings and bury them deep down inside, hoping they'll go away?

It doesn't take a rocket scientist to know that this is unhealthy and not a real man's behavior. The truth is, your current status is no way to live life and will eventually collapse around you.

In today's Empire episode, Bedres Kueilian explains the characteristics of a real man, what you can do to gain confidence in your own skin, why looking for validation from others detrimental, ways to address the trauma in your past, how to destroy a negative belief system, and so much more.

"Go and do the deep work. Go figure out what your limiting factors are. Fix them. You're not broken. You're just not completely healed yet." -Bedros Keulian

Here’s what you don’t want to miss:

6:45 Why most men lead lives of quiet desperation

7:39 How men can heal the trauma in their lives

8:49 Why men self-sabotaging and never deal with their issues

11:26 How to hunt and destroy negative belief systems

12:10 How medicating will destroy your drive and creativity

13:11 Why you might need to suck it up and get therapy

14:30 How being broken will impact your entire life

17:26 How your sense of self-worth developed as a child

18:50 Why real men are savage but also servants

21:05 The types of men with emotional scars

21:50 The kinds of conversations that cause a ripple-effect

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0:00.0	Go and do the deep work.
0:01.6	Go and figure out what your limiting factors are.
0:05.3	Fix them.
0:06.4	You're not broken.
0:07.8	You're just not completely healed yet.
0:09.7	Hey, what's happening? Let's talk about how to be a real man.
0:29.6	Ladies, if you're listening to this and you're like, oh man, he's talking about being a man,
0:33.5	pay attention. Trust me because you're going to want to listen to this. Otherwise, you're
0:37.0	going to end up with a dumbass man. If you end up with a dumbass man, then that's going
0:41.7	to lead to a dumbass relationship and dumbass relationships, usually end up into dumbass
0:46.7	divorces.
0:48.1	Here we go. How to be a real man, but seriously, guys, I came up with this idea of how
0:52.4	to be a real man because this young man sent me a DM on the old IG and he was like, hey,
0:58.7	man, I want to be a real alpha man like you. As much as I love the compliment, I
1:06.9	don't know what an alpha man is. And I don't know if I'm an alpha man and I appreciate
1:12.5	the compliment, I think. But more than that, I think I'm just comfortable in my own skin.
1:19.6	And if that's what an alpha man is and color me an alpha man. But I can tell you that
1:24.0	I was not this person that I am today. Now at 46, something happens. As you get into
1:30.7	your 40s, I can tell all of you this, men, that as you get into your 40s, there's a level
1:36.0	of evolution that takes place where you kind of begin to kind of just become your fresh
1:43.3	out of fox for anything. You don't give a fuck about drama. You don't care to get involved
1:48.3	in drama and gossip and you don't really look for other people's validation and approval.
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