Hey there, welcome. This is the D-YM podcast, and I'm Bella Rose. If you have joined us before, you know that typically I do a show about 30 to 40 minutes and comes out every Tuesday.

And a lot of times it's me interviewing an amazing way for intimacy expert on the keys to a

successful wonderful marriage and intimacy in it or maybe it's a solo show with me talking about

something that's really near and dear to my heart and to marriage and what I believe would be a

benefit.

So I don't have all the bells and whistles today, the editing, et cetera.

I wasn't able to pull that all together, but I did want to give you a little inspiration for this week.

Essentially, I wanted to talk about saying I'm sorry in your marriage.

It's something that's very hard to do, especially when you know you're wrong.

And maybe what happens is in an argument, you spend a lot of time making accusations or any accusations

rather than asking questions. And by the time you get through the argument, it turns out

you were wrong about a lot of those accusations. It's really hard to go back and ask for forgiveness of your husband.

If your husband's anything like mine, it takes a lot of time for him to come out of a disagreement

in terms of forgiveness and processing and just kind of coming out of the fog of being

disrespected. Now, if you listen to the podcast, you know that men's biggest thing is respect.

And I think that's a very hard thing for women to do, especially when something's

really difficult, something needs to be dealt with or a conversation it feels like needs to be

had. How do you respect them in the midst of that? So let's say that you did make a mistake.

Let's say that you were disrespectful in an argument. Maybe you were even right in the argument, but you said it in disrespectful ways,

which caused him to shut down, or depending on who your husband is, his personality, maybe he

lashed out instead.

And so you both are hurt, left bloody and broken.

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