183-Divorce IS an Option

Delight Your Marriage

Belah Rose

Sexuality, Religion & Spirituality, Christianity, Health & Fitness

4.7 • 589 Ratings

🗓️ 20 March 2018

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Summary

Discussed in this conversation:

Divorce is an option, for Christians and non-Christians.
I hope I can convince you of the importance of this truth.
If you are not aware that this is possible for your marriage, you may be blindsided by this reality. But if you believe you both are free beings who choose everyday to remain faithful to your vows, I think you can walk more circumspectly and carefully.

How do you shift the way you view your marriage? Well, what are things about your husband that you rely on? How can you be grateful for the things we rely on?
How can you be grateful for the man you have instead of the man you wish he was?
As I am a woman who got divorced, I wish wives (and husbands) started marriages believing divorce is an option so they would be more careful. So they felt more responsible and accountable for their choices and there are natural consequences to consistently choosing poor behavior towards to their spouse.
- 1 Corinthians 10:12 "Therefore let anyone who thinks that he stands take heed lest he fall."
So how do you turn around a ship heading towards divorce: Gratefulness. Appreciating and respecting and honoring the tiny glimmers and watering those seeds to grow through encouragement and love.
- How to have habits of gratefulness to help each other grow in noticing the positive. What you focus on grows.
- Not to be motivated by fear but motivated by freedom.
How to be careful to ensure affairs are not blind spots.

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0:00.0	Welcome to the Delight Your Marriage podcast, the show where you hear from amazing and inspiring
0:08.1	wives sharing their struggles, triumphs, and advice for this journey called marriage.
0:13.9	Here's your host, Bella Rose.
0:18.0	Hi there and welcome.
0:20.6	Thank you so much for joining. I don't know where you are and what you're
0:25.4	doing, but the fact that you decided to spend some time with me in the midst of such a full,
0:31.9	full life, I'm sure you're doing so much. You might be in the midst of doing a whole lot right now.
0:37.1	Maybe you're washing
0:39.3	dishes or getting ready for dinner or walking out in the park. Maybe you're driving. Whatever you're
0:47.0	doing, I'm just imagining that you tuned in because you want something that's going to encourage you
0:52.4	and make you take pause and reflect on some things in life. And I hope something that's going to encourage you and make you take pause and reflect
0:54.7	on some things in life. And I hope that that's what this does for you. And yeah, I'm just really
1:02.2	grateful that you're here. I wish someone had clarified this stuff to me before I got married the first time because I think it would have changed a lot
1:16.1	of my perspectives on first of all, before I got married, and second of all, while I was in
1:22.5	marriage. So that's what I want to clarify in this episode.
1:29.0	So let's dive in.
1:43.2	I have heard it many times, and I'm guessing you have to, that divorce is not an option.
1:51.2	And people say that like it's this biblical notion that they are just kind of putting as the baseline for their marriage.
2:01.9	Divorce is not an option.
2:04.0	So there.
2:07.6	And yeah, it is biblical.
2:09.7	God hates divorce.
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