184. Avoidant Attachment Styles + Vulnerability
Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau
Beatrice
4.8 • 3.4K Ratings
🗓️ 26 January 2023
⏱️ 13 minutes
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Summary
The biggest lie avoidant attachment will tell you?
That you're safer never showing anyone the REAL you.
People with avoidant attachment get squeamish AF when someone starts to open up to them. They can't stand the idea of being vulnerable in front of someone else. Their avoidant attachment tells them that the only reason anyone would want to get to know them on a deeper level is so they can have something on them…so they can use that weakness to manipulate and hurt you.
Here's the truth: most people who are romantically interested in you don't have it out for you. And if that's a mindblowing revelation, just wait until you hear what else I have to say…
This one's short and sweet, but boy does it pack a PUNCH. Get ready to have those avoidantly attached lies turned on their head.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Self Love Fix Podcast. I'm your host, the Eagle Whisperer, aka Beatrice, |
| 0:08.8 | founder of the Self-Tress Alchemy Program formerly known as Self Love Overcode Penancy, |
| 0:14.0 | T-Addict, and a Self-Tress Embodiment Coach, Teacher, and Mentor for Deep Luxe Bitches |
| 0:20.0 | who aren't afraid of the dark. I'm on a mission to redefine Self Love, to redefine |
| 0:25.2 | everything that you think you have to fix about yourself. Your people pleasing, |
| 0:29.6 | codependency, your past relationship, and so much more so that you can |
| 0:34.4 | alchemize these aspects of yourself into deep, |
| 0:37.4 | reality-bending levels of self-trust and next-level self-acceptance. |
| 0:41.2 | In this podcast, we don't believe you need fixing. Here, the only thing we repair is the way you |
| 0:48.7 | currently view Self Love, manifestation, alignment, and dating and relationships. Welcome to the |
| 0:54.4 | Dark Side, where we play in the realm of astrology, ego work, shadow work, spirituality, |
| 0:59.9 | mask and fem work, and so much more. Oh, and lots of laughs. Welcome to Self Love, redefine. |
| 1:07.1 | Welcome to the Self Love Fix. |
| 1:11.5 | Hello, and welcome back to the Self Love Fix Podcast. My name is Beatrice, and I'm your host, |
| 1:16.7 | and today we are talking vulnerability. Last week, we spoke about people pleasing. You should |
| 1:25.1 | listen to that if you have it, by the way, and vulnerability. And a lot of people are resistant to |
| 1:30.4 | vulnerability. There's a lot of fear, a lot of apprehension around vulnerability, but I actually find |
| 1:36.4 | it to be one of the most liberating things. And I'll talk about that later on in this episode, |
| 1:42.4 | but first I want to speak to my avoidant attachment style and fearful avoidant slash disorganized, |
| 1:50.3 | slash anxious avoidant attachment style folks who are listening in. So even if you don't think |
| 1:58.5 | you're avoidant, I think you'd still benefit from this episode. Because even if we don't have an |
| 2:02.9 | avoidant attachment style, there might be things we are avoidant to do in different areas of our |
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