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Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau

183. Here's Why You Secretly ENJOY People Pleasing

Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau

Beatrice

Education, Self-improvement

4.83.4K Ratings

🗓️ 19 January 2023

⏱️ 15 minutes

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Summary

Where are my people-pleasers at? 

Buckle up and get ready to sit with some hard truths today. I'm here to talk about all things people-pleasing…why we do it, why we can't STOP doing it, and why…stay with me, here…we actually really enjoy it.

You heard me right. I said we actually ENJOY people-pleasing, no matter what we might say about wanting to stop.

The Ego Whisperer is in top form today, and I'm not afraid to raise my voice. Let's talk about what's keeping you trapped in your people-pleasing habits…and how we can shift this to start being a supportive habit instead of a sabotaging one.

 

EPISODE RESOURCES:

Join Self Trust Alchemy, a 16-week live group program designed to help you alchemize self-doubt, overwhelm, and overthinking into next-level self-trust in your ability to set boundaries, achieve your goals, and use your voice: https://beatricekamau.thrivecart.com/self-trust-alchemy/ 

 

CONNECT WITH BEATRICE:

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Head over to my website to learn more about how we can work together to shift your energy & transform your life.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Self Love Fix Podcast. I'm your host, the Eagle Whisperer, aka Beatrice,

0:08.8

founder of the Self-Trust Alchemy Program formerly known as Self Love Overcode Penancy,

0:14.0

T-Addict, and a Self-Trust Embodiment Coach, teacher, and mentor for deep,

0:18.8

lux-bitches who aren't afraid of the dark. I'm on a mission to redefine Self Love,

0:24.4

to redefine everything that you think you have to fix about yourself.

0:28.6

You're people pleasing, codependency, your past relationship, and so much more,

0:33.5

so that you can alchemize these aspects of yourself into deep,

0:37.4

reality-bending levels of Self-Trust and next-level Self-Exceptance.

0:41.2

In this podcast, we don't believe you need fixing.

0:44.8

Here, the only thing we repair is the way you currently view Self Love,

0:50.3

manifestation, alignment, and dating and relationships.

0:53.5

Welcome to the Dark Side, where we play in the realm of astrology,

0:57.3

ego work, shadow work, virtuality, mask and femur, and so much more.

1:02.3

Oh, and block the laughs.

1:04.0

And welcome to Self Love, redefine.

1:07.0

Welcome to Self Love Fix.

1:11.4

Hello, and welcome back to the Self Love Fix podcast.

1:14.0

My name is Beatrice, and I'm your host, and it's almost my birthday.

1:19.1

It is almost my birthday.

1:21.4

I am an Aquarius son, and my birthday is actually on Sunday,

1:26.1

January 22nd, so if you see me on the internet somewhere,

1:30.4

whether it's in the shameless Society Facebook group or on the Instagrams,

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