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HERself

183. The Episode Every Couple Needs

HERself

Abby and Amy

Grow, Health & Fitness, Education, Mental Health, Parenting, Kids & Family, Opportunity, Honest, Real, Vulnerable, Purpose, Best Self, Self-improvement, Future, Comparison

4.81.7K Ratings

🗓️ 29 May 2023

⏱️ 62 minutes

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Summary

The Dude Therapist is back with us today! We have Eli Weinstein on again, this time to focus on communication and conflict in relationships. This is a real conversation of what it’s like to be in a long term relationship with kids. There are challenges that come up and figuring out how to work through these and stay on the same page is so crucial.


Eli walks us through how couples that stay together deal with conflict. He touches on how to deal with heated issues when kids are in the room and how to work around that feeling of wanting to solve an argument right now.


Have you and your partner ever had the same disagreement over and over? Eli shares his tips on how to resolve this so that the same issues don’t keep coming up. If you’ve ever felt like your relationship is more transactional than anything else, tune in to hear what Eli recommends when things with your other half start feeling this way.



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Transcript

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0:00.0

So like if you can communicate your needs a lot of times it's not to solve a problem or to fix something

0:06.4

It's that now you know

0:08.4

About your person more now you can understand what makes them tick and how they feel and how they think so that you can kind of

0:17.1

Go into a state of empathy, which is putting your being able to maybe put yourself in someone's perspective

0:26.9

I'm Amy and I'm Abby

0:30.0

And as women we are constantly comparing ourselves to others

0:34.0

But your life isn't supposed to look like hers

0:37.2

Being your best south means standing firm in your decisions and always being willing to grow with the purpose

0:43.0

We get vulnerable and real with an honest look into the challenges and triumphs we all face

0:49.3

Every woman listening gets the opportunity to choose what life looks like for herself

1:00.3

You guys are in for a treat today because we have a do the therapist back on if you haven't yet

1:07.2

Go listen to episode one two with Ellie Weinstein

1:11.5

We dive into communication and conflict and we gave our real life examples things that Colin and Abby and Drew and I go through

1:20.4

He gave his real life examples like this is a very real and honest conversation about what it's like to be in a long-term relationship

1:28.0

With kids there are challenges that come up and figuring out how to work through those and stay on the same path is so crucial

1:36.3

So we hope that you guys love this episode and we hope that you love it enough to send it to your partner

1:40.8

Because I think both sides need to hear this what let's get to the episode

1:46.3

Today we're really excited to have Ellie back on when we were recording the first interview

1:52.2

We knew that there was just so much more that we wanted to dive into

1:56.3

Because he is a male and we just haven't had that voice on very much in the past

2:01.7

So this one we are largely going to key in on communication and conflict

2:08.2

So let's dive right in in your therapy practice

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