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Black Girls Heal

#183: Stop Withholding Love and Be Love Available

Black Girls Heal

Shena Lashey

Self-improvement, Education, Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.81.7K Ratings

🗓️ 21 March 2023

⏱️ 43 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, Shena discusses what does it look like to withhold love as a punishment, the consequences of it, and encouragement to move towards love availability.


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Transcript

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0:00.0

My, my job is to somehow make them curious enough or persuade them by hookah crew to get

0:14.4

more aware of themselves and where they came from and what they are into and what is already

0:19.4

there.

0:20.4

And just to bring it out, this is what compels me to compel them and I will do it by whatever

0:26.5

it means.

0:27.5

Welcome to the Black Girl's Hill podcast where we talk about healing or intimacy disorders

0:34.3

and resolve trauma and building a healthy relationship with first ourselves and then others.

0:40.0

Every episode we will talk about advice you can apply today to break unhealthy patterns

0:44.7

and grow in your software.

0:46.7

I'm Sheenela Shea, love addition coach and trauma specialist, let's begin.

0:53.8

Hello, hello and welcome to the latest episode of Black Girl's Hill.

0:58.5

I am so happy to be in front of you all today for a new episode and I hope that you are

1:05.9

feeling loved and cherished wherever you are, that you're having a wonderful day and

1:12.0

if it's not going so well, I pray that you find something that will make you feel loved

1:16.6

and cherished and supported.

1:18.5

So in today's episode, we're going to be looking at one of the components of our healing

1:23.7

love on my framework and we have done one of those in a while.

1:26.7

However, we're not going to do a big deep dive over one of the branches, but we are going

1:31.8

to look at one of the symptoms that shows that you are still living and being loved

1:38.1

avoidant and hopes that it will give you encouragement to move closer towards being

1:42.6

loved available.

1:44.1

So one of the things that happens when you are acting in love avoidance is that you will

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